Love Lessons

Sabi nila:

Wala daw karapatan ang isang tao na magalit at masaktan dahil hindi naman naging sila. Pero hindi totoo 'yan. Everyone has the right be sad and to be hurt because of one reason. Just one reason.

It was all because they fell in love.

Kahit hindi naging sila, they have the right. LOVE makes them have the right.

Pero hindi ibig sabihin niyan na kailangan mong paglayuin ang dalawang taong nagmamahalan. 'WAG KANG MAGING HADLANG. Wag kang epal! I know na mahal mo siya. Yes, you have the right to be sad and to be hurt. Pero hanggang diyan ka lang. YOU DON'T HAVE THE RIGHT TO INTERFERE.

(Darating din naman ang panahon na dadating yung taon magmamahal sa’yo. You just have to patiently wait.)

Lahat naman kasi nagmamahal, I mean napapamahal unconsiously.

Yes we do fall in love unconsciously. Kaya nga minsan nakakagulat na makaramdam tayo ng selos,

sakit, happiness, sadness, loneliness at kung ano pa. It’s because of one person.

Yes, just one person. And that is the person we fell in love with.

Minsan kasi, in a certain situation, dun niyo pa nalaman na mahal mo na pala ang isang tao. Mahal mo siya dahil they make you happy, loved, etc. Minsan nga, huli na para marealize niyo kung gaano siya kamahal at kahalaga sa buhay mo.

We must always remember, do not give meaning to every little things. Kasi maaring ito ang maging rason kung bakit tayo umaasa. Wag tayong assuming. Hintayin natin na sila mismo ang magsabi. Hindi yung parang lahat ng maliit na bagay na ginagawa nila ay bibigyan natin ng kahulugan.

Minsan talaga, ang taong in love nagiging tanga UNCONSIOUSLY. Yes, again unconsiously. Unconsiously nagiging tanga sila. They just need someone to tell them na nagpapakatanga na sila.

Hindi sana tanga ang tao kung hindi siya ginawang tanga ng iba. D ba? Walang maloloko kung walng nagpapaloko AT walang nagpapaloko kung WALANG MANLOLOKO.

Wag iyakan ang taong hindi deserving ng mga luha mo.

Tandaan, S.R.A.N.: "Siya Rin Ang Nawalan!"

Kapag iniwan ka niya, wag kang umiyak. They don't deserve your tears. Dahil kapag iniwan ka niya, dalawa lang ang maaring dahilan. (1) hindi ka na niya mahal; (2) iniwan ka niya para sa kabutihan mo. WAG IYAKAN ANG TAONG NANG-IWAN!

Marami ang nang iiwan dahil sa unang rason. MAARING hindi ka na niya mahal.

nagsawa na, o di kaya'y nasasakal na. Nararamdaman lang nila yan kasi hindi ka na nila mahal or should I say hindi ka nila MINAHAL.

Marami din ang nang iiwan kasi sa tingin nila iyon ang ikabubuti niyo. Limited na lang ang mga taong ganyan. They think that they don't deserve you. Minsan ang dahilan nila is because of your status in life. Tandaan: LIFE MAKES LOVE LOOK HARD. Minsan kasi they think lowly of themselves na hindi naman nila dapat ginawa o iniisip. Sila naman kasi ang nagpapakababa ng tingin nila sa sarili nila. Ang tanong: HOW COULD YOU LOVE A PERSON WHO DOESN'T EVEN LOVE HIMSELF OR HERSELF? or HOW CAN THEY LOVE SOMEONE IF THEY DON'T LOVE THEMSELVES? ni hindi nga nila mahal ang sarili nila, pano ka na lang? they should have self-respect. MAHALAGA ANG "SELF-RESPECT"

(and when I say self-respect, idagdag niyo na rin girls na wag ninyong ibigay ang V-card ninyo kahit kanino even to your boyfriend. What privilege are you going to give to your husband? Sabi nga ng tatay ko. You’re V-card is your gift to your husband. Not your husband-to-be. I mean, give it to the person you are MARRIED with. Not to the person you’re GOING TO MARRY. Iba ang kasal na sa ikakasal pa lang. So save your V-card ‘till your married. SELF-RESPECT na rin yun. Isa pa, kung boyfriend mo siya at yan ang gusto niya, then that is not love at all, it’s what I woulod call LUST, again IT IS NOT LOVE if he wants only your body.)