Be dutiful to your parent
Sometimes our parent are really our biggest test, is not only us children that make mistakes they are also human. but no matter how angry we are, we should learn to control our tongue because a single word from us can make them upset and "Allah Subhanahu wata'ala's" happiness lies in there happiness, he is pleased with us only if our parent were pleased with us,He commanded us not to utter a single word that will make them angry.
Don't you think this is a biggest test for us,sometimes it's very hard to stay calm but always remember they comes after our lord himself, more especially our mother's they hold a very respectable place in our live and one bad word from them can destroy us completely.
Narrated Al-Mughira:
The prophet(p.b.u.h)said, "Allah has forbidden you(1) To be undutiful to your mothers,(2) to withhold what you should give(3) demand what you do not deserve,(4)and to bury your daughters alive.
{ Reference sahih al-bukhari,vol 8, book 73,Hadith no:6}
In suratul Luqman[Al-Quran]
When luqman (a.s) was giving his son advice he started like this;
"oh my son! Join not in worship others with Allah. Verily!joining others in worship with Allah is a great zulm (wrong) indeed.
"And we have enjoined on man(to be dutiful and good) to his parent. His mother bore him in weakness and hardship upon weakness and hardship, and his weaning is in two years gives thanks to me and to your parent. Unto Me is the final destination.
" But if they(both) strive with you to make you join in worship with me others that which you have no knowledge, obey them not,but behave with them in the world kindly, and follow the path of him who turns to me in repentance and in obedience. Then to me will be your return, and i shall tell you what you used to do.
[Al-qur'an,suratul luqman]
My dear sisters, our parent may be educated or not, but believe me they are our final hope when all the world turn against us, we should be kind to them so our children should do thesame to us Insha Allah.
Yah rabbi raham huma kama rabbayani saghira!
Ameen.
Please remember in your du'a
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