Growing up I learnt one thing, if a guy says he loves you he's lying.
I first learned this when I was just a child I had come home from kindergarten to find my dad with a woman. A woman that wasn't my mother. At the time I was confused, I didn't understand. That night as she tucked me into bed I decided to ask my mom who the lady was.
That was what caused my mom to leave and the first push that made me what I am now.