We were raised wacthing Disney princess movies. With perfect Diseny princess the princesses all being the same body shape. The villains don't have cookie cutter bodys. In our minds when we think of our body not having the perfect cookie cutter body we think of the villains and how they didn't get their happily ever after. We want a happily ever after. We think that because we don't fit into society's cookie cutter. We can't have our happily ever after. Love her with the body she has no matter if she dosen't like her body the way it is.