save my relationship

"I don't ever wanna  see your face again."

"Your such an ***!"

"I hate you"

How many us really mean all this while fighting or is it just your anger speaking up?

It's difficult to get over your ego *most of the times*...but, Love has always put Ego down and has helped in the survival of your relationships.

A fight with your guy can last for an hour...days..or maybe weeks !!

Is there a solution to this?

Should I talk to him?

Why can't he call up?

Why should I be the one to apologize?

Does he value my love?

I think he's taking me for granted.......................................................................is all you can think of. You just can't stop yourself  from strolling around the same topic until you've sorted things out.

"Okay then...I think I should call him up...."

So you talk and he messes up your mood again. Urrghhh! *Disaster*

What should you do in a similar situation?!

Text him!? Yes! Type in a very emotional message, send it and go offline! He'll try to reach you, but fail.

Here the anxiety of talking to each other is equally distributed to both.

Once you're sure you've done a good job, engage yourself in something that eats up most of your time.

Let it be rearranging your wardrobe/ deleting mails/completing assignments/talking to a girlfriend on the phone/going to the beauty salon/checking tags for the new online shoe sale etc.

After this,

Go online!!...check messages if any!!..even if there aren't any don't be depressed! You should be proud of yourself over actually engaging yourself in something else and something more productive.

This is not the only way. This was for those who feel totally hopeless right now.

Men do have ego issues. Talk to him about his ego! Tell him how bad you feel when he treats you bad!!

He knows that he is the first thing that comes to your mind when you wake up.  Make him value it.! Go a day without chatting and see how eager he gets to talk to you the next day!

When he says that he loves you for eternity and wants you to be there with him all life long, he really means it.

Cherish your sweet chats!

Stop nagging! You can surely advice him regarding some stuff but be sure you don't nag!

Give him surprise kisses!

Dress up for him! Sport the color he likes!

Let him adore you!

Sometimes, relationships need to be pampered, the same old way of living can bring boredom and make things dull. Imagine yourself wearing the same evening gown to all the parties you attend. You desire for more. The same does go with relationships. You putting efforts to make your partner happy will be appreciated by him. Giving up is not the only solution.

This is not philosophy, but is something really basic and essential that should be kept in mind before taking concrete steps.

You're not going to be the most beautiful girl in the universe. There will always exist a better one. You just need to find that man who doesn't care. If you haven't found him yet, keep hunting ! If he's already with you, never leave his hand! ♥