It's not that uncommon or crazy for a girl to fall in love with her teacher. Since we're often attracted to people who remind us of our childhoods, or who fill the role of a father-figure we're lacking, it could be that you're seeking authority, status, or wisdom from him because you don't get a lot of that elsewhere. Also, you spend a significant amount of time with your teacher, you learn new things from him, you're comfortable enough to joke around with each other and - most importantly - you can't have him. I have a story that suddenly or should I say this really happened to me. (TRUE STORY)
We started in a chat when my teacher asked me if I have a relative in their place, but suddenly I just I answered that we do not have relatives there. And that time every time that I gotnonline we are always chatting. Few days after the valentine's day he asked me what happen to me that day, and suddenly I told to him what happen. What happen on that day is that accidentally that my bestfriends were together. I was that so shock and I'm not expecting them to saw there to our "tambayan". I felt hurt but I just turned myself on doing my assignments. And a day ahead, he asked me if he can get my number, so I gave it. And that was I start to admire him more. And suddenly I'm madly in love with my teacher. And I was shocked that my teacher felt the same way. Even though NOTHING has happened between us except a jokey conversation, I still feel closer to him than ever. But now, I'm starting to think that this isn't an average crush anymore. It has turned into some obsessive, lovesick situation that I am struggling to get out of, and I feel I need real big help. I found out that he got a rumour about between us and he believes that I am the one who started, and ever since, I have been feeling down and really hurt. It has gotten so bad I can't even stand seeing him in the last day of being in the school anymore, it was our graduation day, I just never want to see him again. I'm really, really confused with the whole situation. We do not have any communication right now but suddenly and hoping for a miracle. How can I be completely in love with him and want him not to exist at the same time?