The Untold Secret On HowTo Move On

The Secret Untold: How to Move On

Before this topic starts, just to remind you readers that this is not intended to stops you from your sentiments if you want to stay there (eksena nyo yan eh) but rather to give and share some advices that may be helpful to your part. (eh kesa naman yung ini-emo-han mo masaya na ikaw crayolang tunaw ang peg still) Some might not work for you, (kung matigas ulo mo) but it always works, and some might be hurting, (ganun talaga...truth hurts). But in the end all of this tips will only be effective if you are very much open to accept and learn that moving on is not really something to be insisted by other people to you, but it's your choice and you will choose it, for your goodness sake (jusme wag mo namang habaan yung pagmu-move on kung alam mong maiksi lang naman talaga yung itinakbo ng relasyon) So, guys, I hope that atleast you can relate to this.

1. Get Mad

-oo po tama yung nabasa nyo, "magalit ka" normal yun, at nakakatulong. Just want to share something...I realized kase from my past experiences (saya! eh never into relation pa nga ako)hearing and listening to some of my friends stories of being broken, kaya mas lalo silang nag eemote kasi naalala nila yung mga "happy moments" nila with their ex's. Eh kung yun at yun nga ang binabalikan mo sa isip mo, malamang mami-miss mo sya. Hindi healthy yun. Kaya kailangan lagi mo isipin yung mga time na nakakainis sya yung nakakagalit na memories para kada maiisip mo sya mababadtrip kana.

2. Quit Listening your songs

when you are inlove you enjoy the music, but when you are broken...you will understand it the way your heart hears it. Kahit ganu ka-inspiring yung kanta kapag broken ka iiyak ka lang kasi kahit panu mo sya pakinggan malungkot yung puso mo eh kaya mareremind ka lang sa sakit. Eventually you will go into a corner sentimenting again for that person. So quit listening your music.

3. Know that "there's more to life than your past heartbreak"

-Get yourself busy, be productive, and go active. People who are often alone are mostly the ones that experiencing pain from their frustration. Don't let your mind empty, otherwise magpi-fill up dyan yung sakit na naranasan mo. So you must be in an active environment, situation and conversation. Find something to do or someone to talk to, but take note some who is not as emotional as you are. Baka magdouble portion kayo sabay kayo mag emote.

4. Remind yourself not to be reminded

-alam mo namang di ka pa ok tapos sisilipin mo yung social media accounts nya; facebook, instagram; pati myday nya sa messenger ??? what the''''', wag ganun...seriously??? alam mo naman sa sarili mo na di ka pa ok so why hurting yourself if you can heal it instead. wag mong paalala sa sarili mo yung mga bagay na magbibigay sayo ng pain. as much as possible quit from it.

5. Dont be friend with your ex... in any terms.... for the meantime;

-walang mali sa pakikipag kaibigan sa ex, as long as di mo na nakikita yung sarili mo with that person; meaning wala na sayo yung kung anung meron sa inyo dati... nagyayari yun; hindi agad agad pero oo. Unfriend him/her sa lahat ng social media account mo. Don't make "kamustahan" even sa mga alam mong malapit sa kanya. It's not helping you move on but it will only move you away from the conversation kasi gusto mo nanaman magsenti. It's not bitterness, it's just being true to yourself na dika pa ok at gusto mong maging ok kaya mo gagawin yun. Kasi though maitatago mo na di na masakit, deep inside; pero mararamdaman mo parin...wag ka ngang plastik, masasaktan ka padin. Save yourself dude. Pag totally ok kana... masasabi mo naman yun kapag eventually wala nalang sayo yung name na yun. Then yun let it be, kung magkita kayo then just be nice and say hi.

6. Be useful; don't use people

-grabe yung mga taong para mas mabilis daw makalimot, papasok sa relasyon ulit tapos panay banggit sa mga ex. Masama yun at wag kang gumaya dun. Be someone na mature enough na tatayo mag isa at gagawin yung tama. Pra pag may ibang tao na may ganyang pinagdadaanan matapang mong masasabing "ako nga kinaya ko ng walang iba, at eto ako ngayon strong and happy." Naka inspire kana, nagmature kapa.

7. And ofcourse, know your worth.

-kung nasaktan ka ng isa, wag mong idamay lahat. May darating at darating na magmamahal sayo higit sa kung panu ka magmahal. Masasaktan ka ulit pero di palaging break up ending nyo kaya wag mong isipin na lahat nalang ng tao gagawin sayo yung ginawa sayo. May makakakita at makakakita ng worth mo. At ikaw dapat ang unang taong makagawa nun. Don't let yourself suffer from past when you have a good future relationship na darating sana kaso sarado ka.