Getting attached to someone or something pulls you down. If you are attached to someone or something, you'll have to try more than you ever can to let go. Nearly impossible. Its just like gravity. The more you are closer to someone, the more you get attached to that person. And the more you get attached to someone, the lesser you're gonna see what you're capable of. You follow that person in every aspect. If they start using a cool word, you start using it too. You wait for that person like a camel waiting for rain at 12 noon. Its no use. No one's gonna love you the same way like how you love them. You're life ain't a damn movie or a music video. You won't walk in slow motion in your marriage. You won't have a sad song playing in the background when you're depressed. You ain't gonna have a perfect life. No one's gonna have a perfect life. Find your own interests and follow the path which is only suitable for your footsteps. Following someone else is the most distractable thing; but pick yourself up from that illusion and go ahead. God didn't create everyone the same way. Embrace your odds; they are the ones which make you look beautiful, unique and wonderable.