So as a child we are categorized, just by how we look. We're Put in a box, society telling us this is what we can or can't do. Based on not just us but are parents, they see how high your parents went and society thinks that's your ceiling. It's thinks you shouldn't go any higher than that in fact It wants to bring you lower, like crabs in a bucket. It wants you to constantly need them or someone else. " it's ok you have your friends" you mean the people who smile in your face but laugh and talk about you behind your back. The people who constantly seem in your corner, but really are they're with a knife ready to stab you in the back. When you ask who told are the ones who said It all. The ones ready to fight whenever you are but will leave in It like no tomorrow. Most of your friends are there to see what they can get from you. " that's why I have my family." Your family ? So the people you think have been around for the longest are going to have your back? Yes they love but they don't want you to be better than them. That's why they mentality and physically abuse you so. To discourage any thought of your tryna do better than them. They need something to talk about and make them feel good about themselves. They'll say things to make you think they're for you but want to destroy what they can so can need them.
Look don't worry about none of that you have your goals in life keep them reach for the sky. There's been many people that didn't let where they come from stop them from being successful In life. Your friends sometimes you have to let go to see who's really with you.
You don't have to worry about your family once you make It out you don't owe them anything in life. Keep striving for greatness