As we get older day-by-day, month-by-month, year-by-year, we claim ourselves we are getting matured through our age. But little did you know that age has nothing to do with maturity. It just a number. Maturity comes along with experiences. The more experience you gain in your life, the matured you will be. Why I say this, it is because we will tend to look in every aspect we could. Not only just one. We have been there on every each circumstances, we know how it feels, we know what could be possibly the best way to react on the circumstances and all. And thru all of these, you will find yourself becoming a true mature adult.
Actually lots of act we did in everyday life can be represent the maturity act. For me, the simplest way and can be done by everyone is forgiving. It is not easy sometimes. But trust me that was the, I could say holiest action that someone can do. And trust me you will be at ease. Your heart will feel lighter. But of course forgive but never forget! Haha
Second act is understanding and respect. We need to realize that not everyone has the same way of thinking, the same way dealing with problems, the same physical and mental endurance, the same way point of view. Bear in mind everyone is different. We need to understand and respect everyone's decision. If you don't know how, you just imagine yourself in their situation. There must be a reason on each action taken. We as a friend or listener just try to help them by giving them suggestion and good advise. They took the advise with positive way or not, its their decision. We have done our part. And yeah most important is respect. Respect their decision. Also, try to stay calm whenever people being rude to you. Try to be patience when dealing with this kind of scumbag. Do not lower your level as theirs. Not worth it tho. And this kind of act shows you are matured enough regardless of your age.
Third, positive mind. It is not that hard to have a positive mind. All you need is to think about all the good deeds not the bad ones. Throw away all the bad ones. Some will say don't be too positive, you will suffer, People will get you. Nope for me as long I am positive, things will run smoothly. If its not, that just simply not meant for you. Accept what it is. It is what it is after all. Move on and do other things that will make you happy. Simple? Yes. Try..
And last, just mind your own business. What I mean by this is, let people do what they want. Don't interrupt as long its not gonna harm you and everyone else including themselves. Nowadays people keep on bashing out on each other. Whats the point? You got rich after that? No right? So yeah do your own things and let people do their things PEACEFULLY.
Again, I want to highlight all of these are my points of view. Remember, people tend to see differently. So, stop judging guys! Enjoy your life and spread positive vibes.
Peace!
