RELATIONSHIP: How can I make it work?
(6 keys to a relationship)
*Friendship
*Freedom
*Honesty
*Trust
*Understanding
*Communication
Everyone is getting confused when it comes to relationship, lalo na yung mga nagsisimula pa lang at yung mga first bf/gf pa lang. Hope this tips can be your guide whenever you get into a relationship.
FRIENDSHIP
Be friendly to your partners, Friendship means protecting one another. Pag kaibigan mo di ba, you won’t allow them to get hurt so you can also apply it to your girls/boys. A friend also accepting his flaws and ways, and the one who can you talk about your problems so better if you have this in your relationship.
FREEDOM
Give them their freedom, The truth is we never owned them yes, bf/gf mo siya but he/she has a life too so don’t ever control their lives if you want to longer your relation. Never mo siyang hihigpitan na dinaig mo pa ang magulang niya para hindi masakal kung ayaw mong magkaproblema ang samahan niyo.
HONESTY
Honesty is the best policy right? So if you’re being honest to your partner then she’ll do the same too. Always keep in mind that LIES can destroy everything, Sometimes being honest can hurt but being LIED can break something. Avoid everything na alam mong makakasakit sa kanya at alam mong magiging dahilan para magkalamat ang relationship niyo.
TRUST
Trust is the good foundation of relationship.Once you earn his/her trust always have in mind that it was precious. You can have it but you can never break it. If you trust your partner it only means you’re giving them the ability to test their faithfulness and being your other half. Iwasan mo yung mga bagay na makakasira ng tiwala niya sayo if you want to prolong your relationship with him/her.
UNDERSTANDING
Understanding person is one of a kind so don’t abuse it. It’s not because he understands you a lot, sasanayin mo na yung sarili mong gumawa ng bagay na alam mong hindi tama kasi naiintindihan ka niya. Once in your life there will be someone who will understand you, Even if she’s so loud and he’s too serious or what attitude he does just understand them even if it’s so hard to be with him/her try to adjust yourself.
COMMUNICATION
Last but not the LEAST. Communication big word, this is the most important to work every relationships it might help you to deeper your feelings to each other. Once na nawala ang communications niyo the feelings will lessen, kahit sobra mo siyang mahal pag di niya naramdaman na you have some care for him/her the feelings will slowly fades. Try to do some efforts call her, text her if you’re not with her. Talk to her whenever you’re together. Don’t ignore the days na hindi mo manlang siya nakakamusta. Ask her always how is he/she? Did she/ he eatwell? Or how’s her/his day? Always tell them how much you love them. Even it takes a thousandths how to explain it just tell.
Hope that you get some ideas from me on how you will work your relationships with your partners. Anyway it’s all my opinion, If you’ll have some QUESTIONS or LOVE problems, Don’t be afraid to ask me. I’m a good listener and advicer when it comes to love problems.
(PS: It’s because of experience)
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