This isn’t some extra ordinary love story. Everyone knows that it’s not usually easy to be in a relationship. You may found someone to spend your time with but they’re not meant for you in some other way. Staring at some stranger wishing they were meant for you and they would be for your life time, but sadly it isn’t that way. We don’t find the love we want if we wait; we find the love that we desire if we search. It isn’t some shitty relation to destiny or fate or whatever paranormal force that helps you. It’s just you in motion.
I’m a hopeless romantic. I’m not used to seeing lovey dovey couples and it’s not very pleasing to the eyes either. Typical signs of a bitter single person, but hey! why are they even displaying it in public right? It’s not like they’re the only person right there. Must be hard to not stare but even if you don’t say it you wished you had the same thing. Someone to play with just like a best friend, someone to care for you and watch over you, and someone to love you and hold you for long hours just to show they really adore you. I gave up in love long ago. Waiting isn’t just my thing.
Would you be picky if you found a sliver of hope in a foolish act? If you found someone you could be with forever in some form of consoling you have done for yourself? Would you still face the other way and look for someone else who would betray you? It’s not the usual you found someone who would spend time talking with you for hours; well basically till the morning sun comes. Don’t take that person for granted because they spent time with you, they would’ve done something else yet they wasted their precious time in an insignificant you. yes, you think you’re insignificant, basically rendered useless, but they’re talking to you like you’re the most special person in the world right now.
Something sparked. A little light, as they say. Something out of the ordinary happened. A glint of a face that you would remember forever, the person you’ll love for a very long time indeed. Yet, how would you show them that you do love them? Buy they’re heart by sending them lots of gifts and tell them your adoration of money? Sending them text messages of how you’ll love them? No. Send text messages, Good morning, Good afternoon, Good evening, Good night, how’s your day been? How’re you? Simple text messages gets to the person’s heart. It just doesn’t say hey how are you? it says hey how are you? I’ve been thinking about you by the way. Make them feel very special, not just feeling though, make them see it. Little acts of kindness towards them would make them melt for you even more.
Would you believe me if I did the same thing and I finally have the one with me and I wouldn’t take that for granted. I would cherish and love my one and only forever. Spent our first month together with a date and a heartfelt hug and a good bye for the day, but that doesn’t mean good by forever, you’re just saying, good bye, but I’ll see you tomorrow, and the day after that, and the weeks to come, and for years more.
Love isn’t some random luck by looking into someone’s eyes and telling they’re the one. You got to find that lucky person with other foolish act maybe or just another way of consoling yourself. Maybe they’re so close to you that you don’t recognize the compassion they feel for you, stop hoping for something that’s hopeless and act for yourself, just then; you’ll find what you’re looking for.
