heart breaker or heart broken?

trust.

Being able to love, is being able to trust. Being able to trust someone is more complicated than easily letting them into your life and allowing them to know who you truly are. There is you, and then there is you, behind the scenes. Would you allow someone to know the true you, without knowing them? And that's where the word trust comes into the picture. Trusting someone is allowing someone to come into your life and seeing you for you, seeing your worst side, what you look like in the morning and so much more. It allows you to love someone, not just lustfully, but truly loving someone. Can you truly love someone if you are heartbroken? That i could not say. Losing someone that was a major constellation in your life is one of the worst feelings ever, it's like a big chunk of you is gone when that person you depended on leaves. Sometimes even getting out of bed is hard on you because that one person truly meant that world to you; So would that make you a heart breaker? Or heart broken? Truly
depends on the situation..you can truly love someone as long as you trust them, but sometimes trust and love is not all that makes a relationship, there's way more to it than that. Sometimes there's trauma that come into your life which is more than you can handle, which doesn't allow you to truly love someone or to truly trust them, which then comes in the factor of being a heartbreaker rather than heartbroken. Trauma or no trauma, you make the decision for yourself and that other person. Do you trust them enough to love them? Or do you trust them enough to lustfully love them? Are you, the heartbreaker or the heartbroken?