i'm a firm believer that you find the best things in the most unthinkable places. i also believe in long distance relationships because i know who i'm meant to be with is more than likely not going to live 5 minutes away from me. there's way too many people in the world for that to be true. however, sometimes it can. how? read the first sentence again. also, gentlemen, if you wanna keep your girl, only keep her on your mind. not the one after her that's "better" in any way. if they are better then why even bother with her? why not go onto the next one since you're already thinking about it? ladies, if this is ever the case then drop him before he can you lol. you deserve someone who wishes they knew you earlier than when they originally met you. someone who is never going to hurt you, tells you be safe before you go anywhere, (even across the street) someone who wants you and only you. a person who when they hear your name their heart is so full it aches. yes, this is a rarity to find but i believe everyone has someone. if you're single rn (like me lol) you go girl! or guy! you be you boo! even when you have doubt that you'll never find someone for you and yes we all do from time to time, (mostly in the depths of at night in bed alone) at least know this. somebody is dying to see you. dying to text you. dying to get to know all your little quirks and things that make you an individual. someone who will not hold your $20 up to the light bc they don't doubt you. guys, most girls will blush all day long if you call them beautiful just one time.🤷🏽♀️ boom. day made. you're significant other is out there honey and never doubt that. approximately 2% of the population die alone if statistics make you feel better. (the only reason the percentage is 2 is because that includes children who are too small to have a "person") anyway, what i'm trying to say is even all the factors that come in when u are trying to find someone for you, you'll find them. no matter distance, if they don't text back quickly bc their wifi sucks, they call themselves a mess, or they are a little old for you. in the long run, that won't matter. happiness does. that's what i wish for each and every one of you. i love y'all stay safe honey and don't be a square. change isn't always bad sweetie. bye xoxo. 💕🤙🏻
-jay :)