This thought hit me like a bus. Why do you feel the need to ask what surgeries I plan to get? My body is none of your concern. You have no say in what I do with my life. I'm getting to the point of not wanting to answer them or even mention that I am a FTM trans guy. I have gay friends who talk about what surgeries I'm going to have and what surgeries I'm not. Frankly, I'm getting pissed the fuck off by them.
I will ask you one thing, if you have asked a transgender person what surgeries they are going to have, have they given you a rude answer or not answered at all? And why do you even ask? It's not like we'll call you before going into surgery.
I would politely ask you to stop giving 2 fucks about my body and life. Thank you~
My name is Ashton Eric Ramsay. If anyone was wondering.
Also, DO NOT ask if we can have sex or not, or if we can have sex. Do not take interest in our sex life.
These topics really piss me off. I will list them below:
1: Asking our assigned gender
2:Asking our "birth" name
ask Don't ask if we have had surgeries or are getting them.
4: Respect the right to ignore a question and not want to answer.
5: If you don't understand something, ask POLITELY!!!
This is short but I don't fucking care.
You can always do some damn research on it. OR FUCKING ASK.
I am a person who self harms and has a lot of scars. This is kind of like a journal for me.
