Why, the question that we always ask, why god allow pain and suffering, why we have to feel that pain in our hearts and taste the sorrow that led us to be depressed nd lonely, maybe suiciding after that, we people hurt each other why can't we live happily together till the end o times? I guees god allows humankind to make their own choices, and ultimately they can lead to some magnificent things, i mean, you have a look at the extraordinary things that human beings have been able to accomplish, in the freedom and autonomy that god has given us.but the downside or the dark side of this autonomy or this freedom is that we can just create the most vile and contemplate and cruel and vicious outcomes of being human. A lot of what we see in the world that we have generations of men, women,father,mother,children when they make the choice not to love, love god love each other, you play that out and there is a lot of pain that comes with that. The suffering that comes from nature, or earthquakes or volcanos or things like that i find harder to explain, and I guess you got to live with the mystery of it. Um... Some say it's not real and it doesn't make any sense, it happens all the time, a small jabbing comment, a joke at our expense amidst a group of old friends, a line of sarcasm, a sneering assessment, a provocative comment on the Facebook or Instagram, these things hurt a lot, more than we're ever allowed to really admit. In our minds we search for explanations, but anything satisfying and soothing is usually hard to come by which is left a puzzle at the casual in humanity that circulates all around us,and suspect that perhaps it's we who are somewhere deep down to blame for falling victim to it. Well ..... Other people have been nasty because they are in pain. The only reason they have hurt us is because they are somewhere deep inside hurting themselves ( jo3t😞) ... They've been catty and derogatory and foul because they are not well, however, outwardly confident they may look, however, virile and robust they may appear, their actions are all evidence we need that they cannot in truth be in a good place. No one solid would ever need to do this. Te thoughts is empowering because nastiness so readily humiliates and resuces us. It turns us into the small damaged party. Without meaning to, we begin to imagine our bully as potent and even somehow impressive. Their vindictiveness demeans us. YOU, who feel so defenseless, who is all along actually in power. The thought restores justice. It promises that the guilty party has after all been punished alone the way. You might not have been able to write the scales personally, they left the room already or kept the conversation flowing too fast for you to protest, and in any case, you're a sort to make a fuss. But, a kid of punishment has been delivered cosmically already, somewhere behind the scenes, their suffering of which their needs to inflict suffering on others is simply incontrovertible evidence, is all you need to know that they have been served their just desserts. You move from being a victim of crime to being an audience to an abstract form of justice. They may not be apologizing to u but they haven't escaped freely either. Their suffer is proof: they are paying a heavy price. This isn't merely a pleasant story. A person who feels at ease with themselves can have no need to distress others. We don't have the energy to be cruel unless and until we are in inner torment. Along the way, the theory gives hints at how we might when we're recovered from the blow deal with those who dealt it. The temptation is to get stern and cruel back, but the only way to diminish the vicious cycle of hate is of course to address its Origins which lie suffering. There is no point punching back. We must as our old prophets told us: learn to look upon our enemies with sorrow, pity and, when we can manage it a forgiving kind of love.
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Am hungry. :(
