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judgment

Judgment

I was walking to school the other day and I couldn't help noticing how everyone around me reacted to things, our school never suffered from bullying but looking into everyone and their eyes you can tell there is a story behind each one of them, an untold story that made them who they are and do what they do.

For example, you have those people who are always quite and never talk unless they are talked to. Well, I can't help but wonder what happened to them? Are they naturally quite or something made them the way they are? It is not my place to judge people but sometimes your curiosity can get the best of you.

I always thought maybe they are quite because they don't trust people nowadays or maybe they are being abused at home or something, but I always push that thought away I can't think in a negative way and decide what happened to them or what did not, who am I to judge?

You see, everyone got a story behind them and their act, the quiet ones were just an example but what about the people who always talk and laugh and joke about everything? Haven't you ever thought that maybe they are that way because they want to get everything bad happened to them out someway somehow?

That person who laughs a lot is dead inside maybe? I am not here to judge someone based on their personalities or their looks or anything, just a curious person looking at the people around her in school.

One thing I always wondered about is why do people always judge a person who is black? Always mistake them for the bad people? I don't get it everyone do mistakes no one is perfect and no one can be so leave them be they did not have a choice with being black or white.

Just because someone's dad is a thief that doesn't mean the child is one too, you may never know why the father stole things in the first place, maybe to help his child that is suffering from cancer? Maybe to prevent his wife from dying or drowning in her alcohol addiction?

You don't know why that person was crying minutes ago, you don't know why that mother was running; you don't know why that father was shouting or even why that teacher was angry this morning.

People might see things based on their own lives, for example a child will think the mother was running because she is playing tag because that's what he does when he run, another old man will think the father is shouting because his wife took money from his pocket because that's what his wife does, another women will think that the person is crying because his mother died because hers died one year ago.

Not everyone is like you, not everyone suffers from the things you suffer from, everyone have their own lives that they have to deal with, some people suffered more than you did and others suffered less, but that's just how god want it to be.

Don't tell me the girl that's wearing red heels with a Gucci sign is living her best life, and don't tell me the guy who works as a waiter is tight on money.

Maybe that girl is having the worst problems in her life but she have to act right and that guy isn't tight on money maybe he just wanted to work because he didn't want to depend on his father's money forever maybe he is happy with his life but don't want to be burden anymore.

You don't know anything, you have no idea what will happen tomorrow or what word you will read after this one.

Don't make it worse on people even if they were stuck up asshole, everyone have their own reasons or maybe they haven't found their own selves yet, leave everyone alone don't tell that guy over there he is a pussy for crying, don't call that girl a bitch for breaking up with the football team captain in school.

Don't judge everything based on how you saw things or what you saw, there is always a closed chapter no one knows about, and judging won't help in the slightest.

- J.k

p.s: what should i write about next?