Random thoughts

Love

Love

How did they even invent this word? From where did it start? How did they even know that this feeling specifically is love? Was it the spark? Was it the attraction? Or was it the bond you felt with that person? Or the happiness you wanted for that person to have all the time? Did they know about it from the love of a parent child to their child or one adult to the other?

I always thought about it as a safe word, like a warm place you go to when you feel down that's what love is.

Love isn't always pink and sparkly sometimes you fall in the deepest length of love without knowing, and sometimes you think you're in love but in fact you are not.

You may ask how can someone fall in love without knowing? Well, don't you get this feeling where you want that specific person to be happy all the time? You want them to always be safe and have no troubles or pain in their lives, you see that feeling? You go deep into it more without realizing until you think about it, you think about how much you actually care about them to the point where even if they told you they are happy without you, you'd be okay with it.

It will hurt being away from them but if that's what they want then you will respect it and support it.

That one person you have zero intentions of hurting, you don't even know if you have the heart to make him mad or sad the slightest because in return it will be you the one who's getting hurt.

Sometimes we don't take cautions when it comes to love that's why it turns exotic it will turn into something that you just want to get rid of, you have to think about it and make difference between attachment and love, sometimes being attached can get you both hurt but if you love that person then you have to let them go sometimes, you have to be open minded about it.

Don't start something you can't finish, don't let someone love you and then hurt them because one day it will be you who is getting hurt not them.

It's not always about the looks because when you love someone you are going to stay with them and help them through everything but that doesn't mean you're going to support them on their bad decisions you are going to try and open their eyes and let them know what is right and what is wrong.

Everyone had a past, everyone had their ups and downs some people had it worse than the others that's why when you love someone you are going to know how to deal with them in the proper way not in any way, you are special to them so make it seem like it.

~j.k