What is love? What does it mean to have love? How do you know you have love? How do you know what love feels like? Someone please answer me. I'm so confused, I don't know what any of it means anymore. I thought I had love, but it was nothing. It meant nothing to them. They didn't care about anyone but themselves. They used me. They manipulated me. They practically emotionally and mentally abused me. I thought they loved me. They are incapable of love.