love and friendship

LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP

In life, we encountered ups and downs. In these ups and downs, there’s someone who support us, our friends and someone we love. But in these people, sometimes we encounter some difficulties especially in friendship and love.

Does friendship always lead to be in love? We don’t know, because love will bloom anytime. There’s a so called love at first sight, a love that we don’t know the reason why we fall in love. There is always a reason behind being in love to a specific person. A positive and a negative, the positive side is that they have mutual feelings and the negative side is that it is just a one-sided love.

There are people who are into a situation called one-sided love. But it would be nicer if it’s a mutual feeling, just like friendship. In friendship our feelings with each others are mutual and we enjoy each others company.

Could it be that friendship is better than love?

It is possible that friendship could make a step in going to a special thing.

Being in love to a friend is much better than being in love to a stranger, right? Because a stranger who doesn’t know you is nothing from a friend who knows you more than you know yourself, but being in love to a friend could ruin friendship. There are trials in life that we really can’t hide. It is much better to trust in your feelings than to conclude into something. To keep a relationship you must be more understanding than usual, but it doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t give some for yourself.