Ok so we all have this image in our minds of a perfect guy we want to date, or marry someday... My idea of a perfect guy is someone who is somewhat athletic, strong, cute, has a good sense of humor, smart, knows how to cook, confident, hasn't had many girlfriends, loves watching movies, belives in God, believes in being with one girl when in a girlfrined boyfriend relationship, and so on.
But usually we don't end up with the guys we expect to be with, or who we would like to be with. Yes we can make our own choices of who we end up dating, but sometimes you end up with a much different guy than you actually want to have a special relationship with. Now sometimes that can be a bad thing, and sometimes it can be good thing ending up with a much different guy than you actually would like to date.
For the first boyfriend I had for the first time was really nice to me and I really liked him, I knew he liked me to. He was mostly like the perfect boyfriend I wanted. But like a month later after talking and being together he said,"I'm really really really sorry but we should just be friends, just for now at least." Which I was just confused because everything was going perfect with us and then he just broke up with me! So I asked some of my guy friends about why they think he broke up with me like that so suddenly. Well they said that he's cheating on me or talking to someone else. So I got mad and blocked the jerk that just broke up with me to probably get with a different girl on everything. Turns out he was talking to a couple girls and is now going out with one of them. So in this case it was a bad thing ending up with a guy who isn't the perfect guy I would like to date.
Ending up with a guy who isn't the perfect guy you would want to date can also be good to. You both will have many of your own opinions on different things. That's good most, because it makes your relashionship a lot more fun and interesting. Just like if the guy your with is from a differnt country or has different cultures and traditions than you do. One of my friends is dating this guy who is different than her and it wasn't the perfect guy she pictured in her mind. But they're perfect together and most of the time they get along good!
Also guys aren't always the kind of guy you think they are. Like in the previous story I just told you, I thought that my ex boyfriend was the sweet nice loving guy who cared mostly for me. But no he's actually a cheater and player! Now I'm not saying don't trust any guy. What I mean is get to know the guy first before you really get involved with him! If you don't really know him that much it's very important to get to know him first, because your thought may change about him. For an example say that you thought this guy was really cute and you start dating him, although you don't know a lot about him. Then later on in your relationship he's really not that caring and does gross things and does things that annoy you. Now your disapointed and break up with him, one of you will get somewhat hurt (depending on which one just got dumped, or hurt most during the relationship). That's why you need to get to know someone first, if you don't trust me it will end up bad probably around 8/10.
So please ladies just be careful with who you choose and how you choose them. We are all human beings and can get hurt, some of us get hurt easily than others, we have to care for eachother and not act like it's a game, because it isn't a game. Plus girls CAN be more sensitive and more emotional than boys.
