I know this sounds cliche but confidence is honestly the key to success here. Baby girl you are beautiful and you need to know your worth. Believe me, I know that's it tough to really love yourself when you are constantly being reminded of what the society thinks is "beautiful" but baby girls forget that. You are beautiful. It doesn't matter if you are dark skinned, brown skinned, light skinned, tan, white, or even purple! We are all beautiful and we must stick together!
So here are my steps to feel more confident
1) Smile more 😁
The more you smile, the more you will like your smile and use it more often. Also people tend to like people who smile and have a friendly aura.
2) Dress How You Want
A lot of people tend to preach on how you must dress like a "baddie" and baby if you wanna dress like one, do you. If you don't and wanna dress more comfortable, do you. Dressing how you like makes you feel more confident in what you are wearing.
3) Find Good and Loyal Friends
Friends tend to help you feel more confident. However there are cautions with this because there are many snakes 🐍 that exist and fake friends that us Queens do not have time for.
So find you a group of friends (boy or girl) and talk to them. Share interests and hobbies. Plan time to hang out after school and make memories.
4)Wear Makeup if you want!
You do not and let me repeat you do not have to wear makeup if you don't want too. If you do however find some makeup looks that you like and try them. I will be writing a chapter on makeup later on.
5) Believe in Yourself!
Baby girl god put you on this planet for a reason. So shine baby girl. You gotta know what you are capable of and you gotta know that you can achieve the impossible. You are a very strong Queen who needs to rule her throne.
