It's so ironic how people get angry on how they easily judged by others. But they can judge someone quickly without even asking the persons involved about her side of the story.
It happened to me a month ago.
I was guilty for a seconds because of what my action may affect them.I was carelessly talking with my friend on our way up to our classroom.
I met her on the ground floor. From there, I started telling her some school stuff and corny punch lines (hugot) that she may not know yet.And one of it was about the thing one of our classmate chatted on the group chat. I told her, "Have you seen the chat of *toot* on GC?"
She replied, "What is it all about?". " That focused on this topic thing", I answered. She said 'Yes', she'd read that thing. So I asked her about the topic that I really wanted to tell her.
"Then, you also read the reply of *toot* to that?" I taught she already knew because she was online the night before that. She said no, because she log out early in the evening.
"One of our classmate replied to that and he said ~ Basta ako kay *toot lang ako naka focus ~ hahahaha" I was laughing but she wasn't, so that means that's not funny, for her.
When we were about to reach the third floor. She asked me if that's all the things inside that GC. I wasn't looking at my surrounding when I answered her. I am too focused on catching my breath and watching on my step since I was walking on the center of the stairs.
I told her carelessly, "Yeah, but the most important thing is the focused on that thing". She said, "May ganun pa lang nangyayari sa room non?"
"Haha may leakage? Charot!" This answer of mine was supposed to be joke. I am confused 'cause to went silent (which is not usual by the way). I looked up and saw our teacher passed by on her side. We had an eye contact then she told me "Take that back".
I quickly said with a loud voice (or not really?), " No, I'm just kidding that's not a leakage. Uhmm more on tips or pointers?"
She said "That's just the same. You be careful of your choice of words. Some one might misunderstood you and tell that to everyone."