After all the tears, the pain and hurt, here am I with less to tell. I have changed a lot and only now it is that I am realizing that. From taking a long time like months to heal over an ex boyfriend, I have started taking weeks, days, even hours to heal!
"Who am I? "
"How did I change? "
-Only life knows...
The month of love, just knocking. When I opened the door, in a flash it was Tshemo, my ex boyfriend! I was not even surprised that it was him, I guess I just expected that. Later on the 8th we ended things officially, this time in person.
It was really peaceful and jolly, nobody would have said we broke up. Everything became a smooth ride. Some craziness erupted once more. There is nothing so amazing like having your heart at ease.
Just so five days passed by.
The 14 of February, came in very unexpected.
It was a truly memorable day. Never have I ever thought I would experience a phrase of "I love you with the love of LOVE" from a friend. Whom I had spent a long time being friends with.
He asked me to be his date for the Valentines school bash. I did not even say much, I agreed.
Things went as planned, and for the rest of us we enjoyed that lovely day, that left us with tears of joy. The essence of romantic love is that wonderful beginning, after which sadness and impossibility may become the Rule. Just so pride becomes something very competitive.
Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies. Dating someone you have known better whilst in the foundation of a friendship is the greatest thing unlike jumping into conclusion. As it is said though, that the human itself, can never be determined. In that sense it becomes very difficult to put into place, the territories of a friendship and a relationship.
Now I know it is a matter of looking into the future. It's time to forget about the past and move on. Moving on is now or never. I know it may be hard, but who are we without tough challenges to conquer. The past is everything we were, it does not have to make us who we are not. Sometimes we worry about the things we can not provide for ourselves.May your eyes, mind and heart be filled with true spirit of starting a new chapter that gives a fresh dimension to your life.
So rest if you must, relationships can be sometimes hard to cope with. But do not you dare give up. Just because someone did not love you properly, it does not mean you should write off love. Love does not hurt, people do. You still can find happiness out there.Love is possible after friendship but friendship is not possible after love because medicines work before death later nothing can be cured..
For every minute you are angry, you lose sixty seconds of happiness. Now do not compare your chapter one to someone else's chapter twenty. Indeed we live in the world where we are supposed to positively interact with one another, but you have to be selfish for once. Before you worry about anyone else, make sure that you are good. Now that brings in a picture, that never exaggerate your place in someone else's life.
Genuine success comes only to those who are ready for it. So never step back and always have courage to accept new challenges.
Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness. With love, hope and dreams of second chances.
Love sinks, Hope floats.
