Arranged Marriage - The Poker Of Real Life

Juvenile Love

Early teen days and the ever fun filled just college things and its ways. The amount of change an individual goes through in this transit is actually tremendously overwhelming and highly deceptive as well. It can be equated to a baby bird made to fly out on its own, trying to spread its wings and turning up for the final stride ! Also at this age, whatever is happening on the external front is one thing - The Superficial Commotion ! There is an underlying hormonal and emotional change happening simultaneously, of which each of us are highly unaware ! In a conservative set up like ours, we are never made to talk on such topics and its all pushed in back inside for you to understand it on your own ! So when we self study a topic it obviously is going to jumble up and there are chances of learning things as per our own perception and not as per how it actually is supposed to be. Soo this could be one caution area to deal with. Unlike in Western Countries talking about such things is very generic and casual.
Friendships made then are the ones which will last for the rest of our lives, as also the imprints that each of these relationships (either friendships, love or hatred) leave on us are the most impressionable in terms of its embossment. Such an important junction of life where you're at the stake of deciding your career and its nitty gritties on one side and on the parellel lines are all the other things happening in your periphery asking you for a merciful balance ! Whatever one may say, think or feel but this is the most vital & memorable phase of your life and no matter how it goes through its own tiffs of ups & downs, it shall be something you would love to re call in all the succeeding years of life ahead.

" Sometimes you want life to be running, like on  a treadmill, but then it does squats !! "

There & Then were the carefree youth days, asking you to be careful towards building your well nurtured adulthood days. If you take a statistical poll on who had a clear chit in their juvenile days or who doesnt want a chance to reverse the past and fix certain mistakes of theirs - Mind you the results wouldn't actually need two sides to chip in a vote. Each of us do have some gross, some grave, some great & some graceful glitches to repair.
The ones who probably don't have any corrections to make are either way to blessed or probably their life works on the principles of Que Sera Sera .....
Meanwhile in all these self construction days, we have certain behavioural patterns (internal wiring) developing within us and these are the ones which will leave some categoric prints, that shall stay with us for a considerable span of time. As opposed to school time birthday parties, in this segment its all about the prom night and valentine days. Honestly with absolute no offence i came across this weird concept of a Valentine Week, while i was in college.
Like an entire week of 7 days, each attributed with different names and differing ways to express your love towards your current love interest. At some point it sounded exciting & innovative as to how creative can we be in expressing the same love to the same person ( if you had any ) in such variety of ways,means & expenditures ! The love or the apparent love we find in this age could have its basis on very amateurish ideas & expectations    coming from our own insecurities to fit in a particular college trend or peer pressure or just temporary attraction ! I would also feel that it's inappropriate to even call this Love at that age ! Id like to better coin it as some Magnetic Force ! It's theoretically just an attraction towards the opposite gender, because love has an altogether different definition and silhouette, than what we think of it in our teenager days. For eg how we draw a heart during our school and early teen days & quiet on opposition how the actual heart is when ive see it in my med school days ! Just as complex, fragile & intricate as it is in real life relationships arising from it. But thats how we learn, grow & evolve with time & space in all the segments of our life. Juvenile days relationships have their roots embedded on spontaneous & impulsive soils. Just like that spontaneity doesnt always work for all, hence some of these relationships find a beautiful journey while some fade away on their way....