Arranged Marriage - The Poker Of Real Life

The Drama Triangle

Its all about the drama triangle we create in our lives to keep it as entertaining & pepped up as ever! Human nature cannot function in monotony,  we "Like" & almost so we "Need", some amount of melodrama in our day to day lives,so what are the components of this triconal variant & graphically exclusive Drama Triangle :
- The Female Script
- The Male Script
- The Real Script

What is this script all about ?
Its about a self written & most of the times irrationally created storyline in our own subconscious which is a birth child of our insecurities & vaccum !
Ah ! Did we speak about -
" The Vaccum Theory"
Its a summary of my understanding
For Life, Of Life & By Life ....

We all function pretty decent irrespective of whatever obstacles hinder our day to day mobility in life & that's probably how we are programmed as well. In this high paced hustle of our living, we more often than not tend to forget our deficiences - like Psychical deficiencies. Unlike physical deficits like vitamins & minerals, these emotional deficiencies have no external supplements for replenishment ! This is irony in real sense to me and this is what i call the vaccum within : An empty space - The Emotional Exhaust, that you're living with all your life trying to fill in & everyone's vaccum shall keep differing with time, age & space depending on their circumstances !
If i were to list a few physical deficiencies it would be :
- Calcium ,Vitamins, Sodium ,Potassium  & Iron (all of which have a major role in our bodily functions)
Vaccum Deficiencies would include :
- Insecurities, Anxieties, Anger,  Mistrust & Unrequitedness....
I hope i have potrayed some clarity on what i meant by putting forth my concept of :
" The Vaccum Theory ", it solemnly is an inner burrow which is like a bore-well within us developed as a result of our past experiences ( good or bad ) which we habour and carry along within us in our life sequences and thus create our own individual scripts.

So now lets talk a little about these "SCRIPTS" :
A script is basically a monologue written, directed & executed by each one of us in our own heads and sometimes we force it to be a dialogue. Lets review this a little more in depth. We are allowed to have a monologue since its just one person involved at both the ends ! On the contrary when we try to change our scripts to a dialogue (which involves two people - be it voluntary or involuntary) more often than not we may mess up as we try to contemplate both the parts of the script individually without considering the factual data involved. The scripts are these chapters we carve in our heads and eventually form a manual of our day to day pattern & functioning. In a very engineering tone if I were to say, scripts are the codes of your personalized software, which works only for your system & if incorporated in someone else's software may cause Error 404 ! - Beware of bugs & viruses !