Arranged Marriage - The Poker Of Real Life

Respective Perspectives

To all the permutations and combinations of my very own X's and Y's.

Note -
Chromosomes one fine day decided to fuse as per their mood swings & since then we are all left confused ....
XX chromosomes - Girl
XY chromosomes - Boy

I genuiney dont mind going into the details of genetics 🧬 and embryology to explain the concept of Xx & Xy but i will curb my medical urge to keep the conversation universal !

If anybody could ever find out who is right or wrong out of the two, trust me that person has low statistical analysis on hand. We know that no two humans are alike, well in that case we can not be judgmental to any race right ? Being an XX writer that i am, i barely would like to sound as a feminist solely talking about everything in my tribe's favour.
So you see by now all you reader's might have already made some outline about what am i going to write and trust me whatever i write is of little importance than what you people have already thought of in your head ! That's your perspective and i hope if its cloudy ill be able to clear the winds of confusion.

Chapter 1 : We are not the same ( But Why )

The logical answer is that we have different chromosomal coding hence! I'd like you to know that you are not even exactly like your parents, who are your creators ! You're an updated version of them with few errors though ! So then expecting an altogether different genetic code ( XX/XY ) being able to think, act or behave as per you isn't that asking for way too much !
Some of you might say we dont want them to behave as per us but at times they dont understand us. My dear reader that's the very same, we are just twisting words and presenting it better. Everyone knows the problem, you guyz aren't reading this to know where the problem is. I ll put forth my personal conjecture here & it is not ISI certified. Please do not sue me for any comment ! (I still have to get married)

At times try saying,
" OKAY FINE! KEEP IT THAT WAY "
to most of your problems and see how you feel post that ! Im sure if not the half, atleast a quarter of your worries get dissolved ! If you feel he does'nt understand you, well he also feels the same about you. So then there is something wrong at your end also, this goes the same for men as well, that is why you are a man and she is that extra Woo-To your Man (Woman) !
If you keep thinking for everyone on earth your mind will give up soon because you're making it work overtime!

Take Home Message :
Your handling god's most complex of creations, a million of them, so have patience and lets see what happens !

Chapter 2 : Blame Game !

Games add the exact fun to our boring lives no ? But we forget which games do that ! Surely not the Blame Game. There is no point in escaping from a situation by saying everybody else was responsible but not me ! And you know what, you can follow that also, but then when it comes to taking any sort of credentials for creating a hell of a mess in life, that time as well you do the same, take the responsibility & bare the brunt ! Then its, A FAIR-BLAME GAME !
Actually dont do it, dont blame, take an equal share of the outcome in both credits and debits of your game !

Take Home Message : Dont play the games your not aware of the rules, or else people change the players soon and then you cant crib on the same.

Chapter 3 : Trust T-issues !

Now trust is something very very expensive to buy and incase you are affording enough, be sure of its wear and tear, it is one high maintenance stuff to keep !! So why is it soo expensive ?
Ideally its something everyone has but still difficult to offer and receive.
See Trust is one commodity in a way....some people have it ChinaMade, and hence all the problems stayed ! All of you may have trust issues at some point in life based on your prior experiences, but you see you cant stop shopping ! Everything has its re-sale value so does trust have its chance to be given and taken again !! You can fold your not soo good experiences in a tissue and let it sail through another sea not surpassing your view....
What have you to offer in this ? You be sure of your brand of services atleast ! Quality attracts Quality, so in that way things may eventually fall your way is all i can say !