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16. He Wants You To Need Him

Sure, you're an independent lady and he likes that. But he also wants to feel useful. So let him change a light bulb and open pickle jars for you. It boosts his self-esteem.

17. You've Got To Watch Your Weight

Oh shit, did I really say that? Well, it's true. Just because you landed him doesn't mean you can eat whatever you want and stop going to the gym (and to be fair, neither can he).

18. If You've Been Living Together For Longer Than Three Years, He's Not Going To Marry You

At that point, he already considers himself married, and the idea of a wedding is more of a hassle than the special day it is to you. You can try to force him into it if you want, but...

19. Ultimatums Do NOT Work

Any time you try to force a guy to do anything, he WILL resent you for it. Try an honest talk about how you feel and what you want out of the relationship before you give him an "either/or."

20. He Wants Kids

It's hardwired into his DNA. No matter what he says when he's in his twenties, when he gets a little older, he's going to want a legacy to leave behind. But please make sure he's ready before you stop taking your birth control.

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