you can't. we're not dogs. Just talk to us. actually, a gender is not a personality. so not all women are understanding. Feminism is not needed as much in America anymore, middle eastern women are being raped and killed and have no justice . women in Africa are being killed and raped and thrown into rivers. No acknowledgements or justice. I know comparing women cruelty is disrespectful. But the world is at a point where we need to measure the extent of the problem and if it's worth mentioning or talking about. Think about that. We need to measure women cruelty in order to find the priority problem. Even then, white annoying feminists will find a way to make their problem more noticed by America and make it a national issue...they don't like the way men sit, or they don't like the way men look at them, or they don't like the way a man speaks. What are they fighting for? Women can work, they have equal pay, we can go to school, find education, even get into colleges. Yet still white Feminists crave more. Now I'm not saying being a white feminist women is an immediate death penalty but it's obvious that since they are white and are considered privileged, that they are seeking a reason to be seen as not privileged, almost wanting to be seen as a minority. To have that sense of "I have it tough too because I'm women, I'm one of you!" To be seen as a victim. it's gone to the extent of where women are being patronized in movies, books, sitcoms, and everyday life marketing. They are putting strong female roles in, not because they want to show genuine awareness but to keep women shut and satisfied without knowing it that the way their portrayed is incorrect. Stop shoving into our young girls that, "girls are stronger than boys" because it's not true. We are equal. Why can't we be equal? We need to help the women out in different countries, we need embrace our womanhood but not in a ridiculous matter. Feminism in America is not needed anymore.