A Letter To My Young Sister's.

This goes out to all The Young Ladies

Sisters, what is the valued worth of your demeanor.
Is it respect
Is it Love
Is it happiness
Or is it Attention
Learning to love your self
Or loving a young man before loving yourself

See this is what's wrong with our young sisters. My young sister's, and when I speak the word sisters. I speak in a form of every race, in a form of unity, in a form of voice power and identity.

To my sisters who no know better.
If a man raise his hand to you it is not OK
If a man belittles you it is not OK
If a man can disrespect you it is not OK
If a man verbally abuses you it is not OK
And if a man uses you it is not OK

Never gave a man the ABILITY to hurt you, and than after he has hurt, he says "I'm Sorry" never say its okay to a Sorry that someone has delivered to you. After the first OKAY to his sorry, there would be more Sorry's, there would more tears from your eyes, more hurt to your heart. There would be good days that feel like everything in the world is amazing. There would be good times that would leave you smiling for a whole day. And then there would be pain and more pain.

Sister's don't loose yourself trying to make a man happy, if he is not happy with you then he is not for you. There is a difference between a happy relationship and a few happy days in a relationship. Acknowledge the difference and learn from it. You don't ever have to settle for a man who does little to nothing to keep you happy. Happiness come from within, just like love. And just because you love him doesn't mean you have to put up with anything.

Your heart belongs to you not a man.
Your happiness belongs to you not a man.
And you ability to love belongs to you.
Don't even give a man control over something that belongs to you.

Cause then you'll find yourself lost and confused on what next to do.
Or stuck feeling like he is all you have.
When that is not true

Cause my young sisters when it's all said and done all you have is you.