In the world of straight people, establishing a fixed relationship is the most stand-up point of view. Monogamy is also human nature, so people are used to evaluating such criterion for bisexual couples who cannot adapt to heterosexual life. For most bisexual couples, their lives are always not easy. Because people often think that uncommitted relationship between bisexual couples and swingers is like the relationship with hookups and whores.
Many people's stereotypes make bisexual couples unable to build up a long-term uncommitted relationship with lesbian or heterosexuals. They think bi couple is greedy, slutty, and chaotic, so they try to avoid building a relationship with bisexual couple.
However, based on the dual sexual orientation of bisexual couples, they always hope that there are sexy females and cool males to be companion with at all times. They are attractive to both, That feeling is similar to a hot girl in bikini who is of great charming to straight men who are in sports cars. Bi couples are enamored with threesome fun. Their sexual orientation is as magic as cheating in dating issues compared with straight people or lesbian and gay. But this does not explain why bisexual couple becomes more inclusive in non-monogamous life, because for a heterosexual woman, she can have crush on many straight men, may be attracted by money, or may be attracted by the shape of body, in short, she must make a decision to pick one, you can not interact with many men at the same time, this is the limit of our morality and ability. We don't necessarily marginalize non-monogamous relationship.
However, bisexual couples have appetite to do the same thing, while being eager to make their non-monogamous life more open in front of females and males.
Many people are opposed to non-monogamy because of the following points:
Monogamous life is healthier and more stable than others;
An uncommitted relationship that is not monogamous can lead to insecurity;
The bisexual couple's life with swinger is not conducive to fostering the intimacy between husband and wife;
Non-monogamy forces the swinger to join an unbalanced threesome relationship.
But is this really the case?
In my surroundings, there are several bisexual couples, and I am one of them. They don't deliberately advocate a non-monogamous lifestyle. Under the constraints of legal couples, they can't do anything. But driven by bisexual orientation, they still chose this lifestyle. It is not that they have a greedy personality, but a sexual impulse that is different from heterosexuality and homosexuality. I plan to give their voices back, if heterosexuality is their nature being, we can also imagine that bi is also their nature, which is spontaneous, and we cannot suppress the existence of this bisexual orientation. It is plausible that they don't suppressed their nature.
Fortunately, this spontaneous sexual orientation has been supportive by both spouses, they are coordinated with their marriage, and they reach highly agreement in the practice of non-monogamy marriages. They want to have a long-term stable uncommitted relationship, which is also an important factor distinguishing between slutty and hookups. Swingers have a high degree of openness in the bi couples, they can agree on the date of the sexual relationship, under which there are few contradictory conflicts. Because the acceptance of bi couples is much higher than the straight people. Their uncommitted relationship also gets more freedom.
Building an uncommitted relationship is also the desire of many bisexual singles and swingers, who gain more sex freedom in such open relationships. They don't get much recognition with the straight people or gay dating, so choosing an uncommitted relationship is also an interpretation of one's sexual orientation. As long as the relationship is reasonable, respectful, and safe, the swingers can safely join bi couple's group.
Bisexual couples and swingers are clearly two important drivers of this uncommitted relationship, and one can abandon some stereotypes about the behavior of bisexual couples, because they complement each other in terms of sexual life. They are also good partners in daily life, they could share lots of thing together, such as eating, sleeping, shopping, chatting, and watching movies.
The relationship between them can become very close, but in this open feeling, rarely they lose their friendship because of betrayal. Their relationship is clearly stable in this complementary relationship of sexual orientation. So now it seems that uncommitted relationship is also a kind of freedom and balance between bi couples and swingers.
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