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So this is for those who’ve faced(facing) disappointments, heartbreaks, tough times in life ……
Have you ever gone out full with big dreams big goals but things didn’t work out the way you had planned? The relationship didn’t make it? Weren’t able to achieve high percentage? Lost in sports? Didn’t get admission to a good college ?,etc.
Well let me tell you that the disappointment is just a season, it’s not the rest of your life. The disappointment, the loss, the betrayal, that’s temporary. We all go things that are not fair.
People do us wrong, we feel betrayed, came down with an illness, etc. Well that’s life and you can’t stop life from happening to you but you can choose how you respond. If you hold on to the hurt, you go around dwelling the offence thinking why did they say that about me, why did I loose my loved one, why did that friend walk away. Thinking all this does nothing but only opens the door of bitterness, and when you’re bitter, it effects every area of your life, bitterness poisons your attitude to where you see everything in a negative light, bitter people don’t have good relationships, they’re easily offended, they’ll jump down to your throat for the smallest thing. It’s not you it’s the bitterness coming out from you. You may have a good reason to be bitter ‘something was unfair’ , but holding on to it is only going to make it worse, it’s going to steal your dreams, rob you of your joy. Bitterness can keep you from your destiny. Who you are right now today is not who you have to be tomorrow. You can literally change your life in one second. When people tell you that you can’t, don’t look at them, you don’t need to look at them, just look in the mirror and you ask it to yourself that did you give it your all? Lots of people have potential but not everyone does it. Remember the moments when life tells you YESSSS aren’t the ones that define you, the moments that really matters are the moments when life tells you NO. Are you worried about things that are only temporary? Letting someone, something steal your joy because you think that this is the way it’s always going to be? When you face opposition, things don’t go your way, recognize that it’s not permanent, that’s not your final destination, quit worrying about things that are only temporary. If there is anything that is going to keep you from being productive and successful in your life IT IS 100% BECAUSE OF NEGATIVE SELF TALK. Now wonder what would happen all through the day if instead of putting ourselves down, instead of dwelling on the negative, we would go around thinking ‘I’M A MASTERPIECE, I’M WONDERFULLY MADE, I’M TALENTED, I’M ORIGINAL, I HAVE EVERYTHING THAT I NEED.’ I know you’re hurt, I know you’re disappointed, but DON’T STAY HERE, something better is waiting for you there. In other words, here is the disappointment, here is the bad relationship ,here is the dream that didn’t work out and if you’ll stay here you’ll be discouraged always. YOU HAVE TO GO THERE.
Now how to go there , how to get out of this mess? It’s so simple…..get up from here and go there! Sometimes you forget that you do have a choice, a choice of not holding on to, just letting it all go…..a choice of forgiving those who hurt you and moving on with life. You do this and you’ll find yourself on the other side. The hardest part is letting it all gooooo…….but you have to, in the end you have to.
Every single thing comes down to this point that you have a choice, you can either choose to be brave, courageous, step up and take steps towards having a better life pursuing your goals whatever they may be or you can choose to counter back down and go live your life on the couch, stay inside the house, not live your life, not doing something incredible but no matter what it is your choice. Just because you’ve been through loss doesn’t mean you’re not gonna win again, just because you had a breakup doesn’t mean you’re not gonna find someone great again, just because your friends left you doesn’t mean you’re not gonna make friends again, just because you’re feeling low by remembering all those good days doesn’t mean you’ve seen you’re best days . Fear, anxiety, sorrow are just excuses. You choose to be afraid, sad, depressed. You choose to let them influence the decisions you’ve made. You gotta get over these at one point of your life and if you can’t, figure out a way around, Change your environment, change your social circle, go to gym, do whatever you’ve gotta do to get yourself going down that right road, the road towards success. There will be some moments when you’ll not understand anything, when you’ll have plenty of reasons to be negative, in those tough times, remember your dream. That dream is still alive.
Nobody’s supporting you, nobody is there to help you?
Bhad m jae sab….you’ve got yourself and that’s more than enough…
Just remember this-today you’re broke as hell but one day you won’t be.
No matter how bad the break up was or how bad your condition is now, you’ve always got a choice to step out of this shit and take back the control of your life.
Is your dream too big that it doesn’t let you sleep? Well then don’t sleep, work for it, its always gonna be difficult. If you want it go get it. I promise you that it’ll be worth it.
Bhad m jae ki sab kya bolre h, bas apni suno aur apne aap se bolo ki I have a choice…..I fuckin have a choice to make it right once again. Jo ho gaya vo ho gaya pr ek baat batau?…..Bhale hi jo kuch hua vo bohot acha tha and now you miss it but usse bhi bohot zada acha ho sakta h. Life hasn’t ended yet…just work on youself ….apne aap ko utna kaabil banao ki tumhe har cheeze behetar mile phir. You’re in the basic state… arey ek baar upar uth k to dekho, apne aap ko uss level ka bana k to dekho, tumhe niche aane ka mann nahi karega, and then you’ll surely get everything better.
There are two types of pain
1.Pain of hard work
2.Pain of regret
It all comes down to this simple thing—YOU HAVE A CHOICE.
THANKYOU FOR READING IT
PRIYANSHU
