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„2004 All Rights Reserved. - Change Yourself - By David DeAngelo
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How To Change Yourself
A Man's Guide To Inner Change, Reaching Goals,
And Making Things Happen
By David DeAngelo
©Copyright 2004, All Rights Reserved
„2004 All Rights Reserved. - Change Yourself - By David DeAngelo
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1. Why YOU Need to be the One to Change .......................................4
You're the Only One Who Really Cares about Your Success ............................ 4
Trying to Change Reality Instead of Changing to Suit Reality ......................... 4
2. Guiding Change ......................................................................5
Definite Major Purpose..................................................................................... 5
Constant Improvement .................................................................................... 5
3. Recognizing the Obstacles .........................................................6
Preventing Ourselves from Success................................................................. 6
Common Reasons for Negative Emotional States ............................................ 7
Identification Leading to Over-Generalization................................................. 8
Identification Entails 'Meaning'........................................................................ 9
The Alluring Victim Syndrome........................................................................ 11
4. Adopting a More Successful Attitude .......................................... 12
Making Mental Feedback Loops Positive ........................................................ 12
Re-Interpretation and Eliminating Failure ..................................................... 13
The Influence of Others.................................................................................. 14
Inner Work and Mental Preparation............................................................... 15
5. Common Pitfalls .................................................................... 18
Unrealistic Expectations................................................................................. 18
The Paralysis of Analysis................................................................................ 19
Jumping to Mastery........................................................................................ 19
Not Valuing the Result.................................................................................... 20
„2004 All Rights Reserved. - Change Yourself - By David DeAngelo
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1. Why YOU Need to be the One to Change
You're the Only One Who Really Cares about Your Success
No one cares like you do, except perhaps your mom, and she
