I have been telling my self that I am bi or pan for 3 and a half years now. I came out to my parents a year ago and they think it's a phase. I have only ever had 1 girlfriend and when I broke up with her because I didn't know if I was straight or bi I didn't want to trail her on, I stopped talking about her to my parents. But I'm stubborn as hell and hate defeat so even though I stopped feeling like I'm bi or pan I keep telling myself I am, and it's messing me up. I'm in a happy straight relationship and I know my parents think me being gay for 4 weeks of a relationship was a phase because it's just clear and it seems like it was just a phase. And I'm scared that it was just my way of dealing with being insecure(I had major anxiety for a couple years and I still do but it's not as bad) honestly I'm just scared. I have told everyone i know that I'm bi or pan and now I don't think I am so I don't know what to do.
~Trinidee
