I and my husband didn't date, he didn't court me like any other guys courted their girlfriends, we are not that long-term friends that became couple after realizing that we love each other more than friends, nooo. Our love story is like a whirlwind love story. We chat as strangers, decided to meet and after a couple of weeks, we both agree to why not try entering into a relationship not because we have a lot of similarities, but because we just want it. Honestly, we have so much differences.
I was renting a room with my two friends and their my co-workers too back then while he was occupying a condo own by his relatives.
And the rest is history. We got pregnant with a boy without the blessing of marriage. I am 21 years old and he was 25. I was self-employed and he was unemployed. I decided to quit my job and he decided to find a job. We got married after I gave birth with our little boy. We never planned to have a baby without stable job or stable income but we know that it was God's plan. He will never give us what we don't deserve. Truly, if you believe that you can be great in things that are uncertain to you, you will be great. God gave us a son because he knows we can be a good parent.
I stayed at home as a mom and a wife. My husband gets to work every single day. We stayed on his parent's house. The start of our relationship as a couple is not that type that you would love to enter into, but uncertain things will work when you have faith together. We aren't perfect as a couple; I can cook, he doesn't, I make laundry, he doesn't, I love to change the diaper of our baby, he doesn't and many more differences. We argue, yes!, it's normal for a couple, but we talk about it after we calm down. We are not sweet on social media, but we are in real life; we kiss good night and we always do morning kisses, we exchange I love you's every single day, we make deep conversations about love, life, and dreams.
Now, our baby is already a one-year-old boy. We are on a far away city, away from him but we are working on our dreams for our boy. He deserves to have a good life, so we need to sacrifice. We know that all of our sacrifices will pay off soon. We are in this together, with our faith and love for each other.
