What is real love?

what is life really about?

Some people ask these questions over and over "what is love? or what is life?. and well today is the day I tell my side of the story with these topics just keep in mind people have different Opinions. so first all "what is love?" Some Teens or adults is struggling with loving themselves and fighting to get over someone (an ex) and well some things can be difficult not saying it'll be easy in life. but i'm gonna tell you my story of what love is to me and what I did to get over someone (an ex). first of all I had a hard time for letting my ex go I simply did basically everything.. I kinda almost kill myself over him until one day my parents found out.. it was not my best day. simply as people always tell me "why?" well see when you love someone you get depressed a lot you don't want to do things in life you simply just want to go to bed and never wake up and well that's was me throughout my days. well you may ask "didn't you talk to someone or get help?" at first I thought about it but at the time it was hard for me to talk about or even to my friends. my friends had no clue of why I was doing what I was doing and its not always easy to tell someone ( friends) that you almost kill yourself because they look at me and they said "really? are you serious so you pretty much gonna leave me?" and that was hard for me to go through and when my parents found out that destroy me to no end. but throughout all of this Im like i'm a better person because of my ex and I'm me and I'm good and most importantly I'm alive. I think to myself when someone simply does something in a relationship and say "sorry" over and over again. they're not sorry, they never was they sorry for getting caught and for not being good to you. but are they sorry for hurting you? No they're not and let me tell you why. is simply like this if you get a glass cup or plate and throw it down and it breaks and you say "sorry" to it. did it go back to normal? no it continue to be broken and you may ask "what does this have to do with it? well items are just like hearts once you broke it you never can unbroken. it broke for good. also how to get over a heartbreak? well someone you meet or anyone comes along loves you more and be good to you will replace the hurt and the broken pieces of what you're ex did. also not everyone is going to be good you're the one has to pick the right and sometime it can be hard and scary. and through all of this I learn love is basically loving someone who has respect, who is loving and most importantly caring because once you have this in a person of who you dating then be lucky because a lot of people doesn't get that lucky. that's what love is for me. Some people says "loving someone can be hard when y'all break up" and you know what I totally agree in a way but also disagrees with this and let me tell you why.. see missing someone who was basically you're best friend, someone who loves and cares for you , partner n' crime and most importantly you're boyfriend. once you realize you don't have that that's when the changelleing part comes and depression that's when things can be going downhill and it can be okay at first but then doing it everyday and feeling sorry for yourself is not okay because I know what's it like to miss someone but sometimes you gotta look at the bright sides of things at least you're not getting hurt or worrying about if someone is going to cheat on you, because if you have 3 things and the 3 things is me , myself , I and if you have all of that then you simply have it good in life. because how to get someone is to make you a better person and sitting in your bed and crying is not going to bring them back or make things changes and crying over a dumb , stupid ,idiot boy who didn't deserve you in the beginning is really stupid see i'm not here to sound rude or mean i'm simply saying the truth for people. but people can ask "how?" a lot but truth is you gonna be the one who figure things out in life because that's life and that's what you do. because asking someone else is basically living in their life's instead of yours. firs thing first go and get a nice hot bath. turn some music on (something that you love) and go get your hair done and nails. go shopping etc. do the things you love doing but don't look at your ex pics or anything like that is not worth your tears or your time. and simply most importantly Delete the pics of you and you're ex and everything else and burn their stuff. because doing all of this will help you in the long run. that's basically how to get over someone.