Setback in a Person

ANGER - The Setback in a Person

Anger is a very common feeling that a person experiences. It is often felt when something or someone doesnt work according to you. Anger is experienced when a man loses to himself in his own mind, but in reality his life has planned a long set of hurdles which may create situations similar to this. These hurdles are meant to jump over with immense focus and perfection in timing. As soon as we are born, we are not introduced to these tough times we are about to face. All of these take time to be organised in our brain. Thats why we have a period of almost 20 years before we get to know about the real problems. Our brain needs certain amount of experience and practise to complete a task unknown to us from our childhood but which suddenly pops up. And when we train for our finale, we forget that no one can do anything without experience.

The life goes in a normal pace until these challenges come along. So it is a bit hard to deal with at the first. But when a person consistently fails to achieve something, he loses his cool and asks himself that why cant he complete this task? But the thing he forgets is that in his life before he hasnt done this a single time, as usual itll take time to catch up hell need adjust and do the task in his own way. And if a person channelizes his anger in that particular way then theres no negative affect on the persons surrounding and unlike that he feels little amount of satisfaction when the thing goes at least 1% right.

This is the start, is what comes in his head but unfortunately this is not the same with every person. Ive seen many people getting unnecessarily panicked and angry on something which can be solved in an instance but with concentration and patience. But not everyone has that capacity to control what they feel and it often comes out like a volcanic eruption which has a very negative affect on its surrounding as well as to himself.

If Im not wrong then after letting out of that unnecessary anger on everyone else, who werent even a part of the problem, youll feel guilty about shouting at them and the worst part is that youve done it so bad that a simple apology doesnt covers up the dent on the persons heart. Im not saying that it is always too late to do something right but it is about the something you do right from the very beginning.

Letting out anger and channelizing it in a wrong way is never really fruitful. In my life till now, Ive also committed this same mistake a number of times and in the inside Ive felt that guilt but now that Im coming to my senses, Ive started realising that nothing in life is permanent than love and respect for others, which protects them from the harmful effects of a persons anger. And this reason for the anger will fade away with time but the people whove been with you, not only in the times of your anger but happiness and sadness, will not be same after getting treated like this again and again.

Some people also get angry when someone doesnt reply to anything posted by him in social media. But what do they forget is that to live a happy life you dont need social validation but if you live life in a sporty manner than society will automatically validate you in a positive manner.