RELATIONSHIP THAT WORKS

Part One

CONTENT:

Introduction
1- What's dating and Courtship.
2- Is dating a sin.
3- When can I date.
4- Things to consider before courting  into marriage.
5- Christians dating or courtship process.
6- What you must know about love.
7- Some vital  scriptures you should know.

                                   INTRODUCTION
                                   Story of Anabel:

Anabel was a virgin when she went to the university,  her virginity was her precious treasure as far as she was concern. As a God fearing lady she thought of keeping herself till marriage, her first stay in level hundred was successful even though it was challenging,  she got attracted to the guys  on campus, most of her course mates desired to be in a relationship with her but she successfully turned them down.  Her successful journey went on smoothly through-out level hundred to level three hundred. At level four hundred she decided to stand for a floor representative's position at her hall and to God be the glory she won.

Now Keven was a medical student, he lives at the same hall with Anabel, Keven appears to be cool and responsible to everyone at the hall. They both knew each other as a hall residents. But both had no personal contacts.

Keven had some group of friends they gym together, and move together on campus, one day as they were gathered infront of the hall, Anabel came to pass and greeted them gently. One of Keven friends made a statement, he said “this girl no guy can date her in this  hall". The statement became a discussion among them for a while, so finally they bet on her to see who could date her among themselves. Keven loved the idea so he decided to start a relationship with her, it wasn't easy for him at his first and second attempt to get her attention. On one occasion  they both met at the food court and it happened to be that the caterer didn't have change for Anabel so Keven decided to pay for her and later come for the money. Keven asked for her number but she refused to let it out so she rather should him her room. When Anabel went back to her room she told her roommates what happened. Keven monitored Anabel’s Movements. Anabel waited the following day to see if Keven would come for the money but he didn't. Keven waited for Anabel  to go for class, (he staged what to do), he went to Anabel’s room and acted like he urgently needed the money, but her roommate told  him  Anabel  had gone for class, but he insisted if he could get her number to call her, at least she could send him Momo, so the Roommate let out her number and that’s how he got Anabel’s number.

He called Anabel that evening to explain things to her, but since she was at dept she wasn't hush on him. Keven commented on how caring her Roommate were and when Anabel told her Roommates they all turn to like Keven and that’s how the friendship started.  Keven gave much of his time and concern into their friendship, so Anabel thought he care because Keven was a medical student. She felt for Keven and embraced so much the care Keven showed her. At the second semester when they came back from vacation, because they both miss each other, Keven acted like he wasn't feeling well, so Anabel thought of visiting him after her evening class. She did and Keven felt so appreciated, so he asked if she could come over the next day, Anabel visited Keven the next day, but before she came Keven had already told his roommate to excuse him, she came that night and they both felt for each other and that’s how Anabel broke up her precious virginity before marriage. She felt very bad that night,  but she felt she did it for someone she love. The following week they had another sex, so it was after that sex that Keven’s girl friend appeared on the scene,  she went to warn Anabel to stay away from her boyfriend. Anabel didn't know what to do, she felt like committing suicide, Keven became the last thing she would liked to see in her life. To Keven he won the Bet. But to Anabel she lost her dignity, she wasn't able to concentrate on her academics as a final year student.