Confident and think positive are a type of energy that can lead us to success. It we're given when we are a kid by those who near them. That mean, family are the most important member to give the young confident and positive.
That mean, the parent must give their children the same amount if love. Such as you cannot love your first child more then your second child because that will make your second child think that no want like him and it will also lead him to think many negative thing such as suicide or it can also bully some children in school because they wanted to increase your attention on him or her.
Not only that, parent must ensure their children that they are not bullied in school. As a children those kids been bullied are the one that are a quiet, no want liked kids. It is also important to teach your child to tell teacher, mom or dad that they must tell them if they get bully. It is important to tell when you get bully because it might cause them to human phobia. Just like a friend of mine. He also got bully at school when he was only primary one and now he even did not talk to anyone in school even me. I always encourage him to speak or talk to someone but his memory when he was young will never gone. A stone is enough to break a glass, a knife is enough to cut meat, and a sentence can break our heart. The word are said to the one will never forgot, they will always keep it on their heart . A word can break our dream. A word can make a person depress. And heart. A word also will lead a person to suicide. So we must be careful using word because word are more deathly then hell.
Not only the one who near us can give us confident or positive power, we ourself is the most important to get confident and positive power. If we think negative stuff more then negative stuff. The most important to get confident and think positive is all by yourself. If you think your parent treat you like a pet, you are wrong. I say that because I think that way. And I told myself, if my parent treat me like a pet, why my parent want to give birth to me. If my parent don't lone me, why I still in this house living with them and not living with the orphans in the orphanage. I am lucky because my parent can leave me on a street but they decide to keep me. And I ask myself, why would my father work so hard to feed us, why my mom there always cook delicious food to me, why my parent scold me because I do the wrong thing, why my parent bring me to school everyday and not hire a driver and fetch me to school, why my father use his money and buy me an iPad and a phone, and why they call me son if they don't love me. If I suicide, what they felt, cry, sad, happy, mad, cheerful, or what. When I hurt, who is the one who bring me to the clinic, who pay the payment. And why I would call them mother or father if I don't lobe them. And why my parent alway spent their time with me, why they alway make sure I get what I want. And I dream once, my mother dead and what I do, I cry and cry and cry while my father say don't cry, t will pass. It is all because of me think of negative and never think positive. When I realised how they love me, I kept thinking positive and have I have gain back some of my confident back.
Although your parent did not tell you how much they love you. Love can't be told because love is a invisible force that not want can touch, no want can harm, no want can see. You must alway be confident and think positive, I can make you a better live.
Written by:
Ivan Chang Jian Kai
May 11th 2020
