Reminder including myself first.
You cannot control how other's treat you. No matter how hard you try, there are people who will hurt you willingly and unconsciously.
Some will be unkind, unfair, unloving, and indifferent to you. There are some who would do anything to see you fail. Some will spread rumors and lies of you. Some could even take advantage of you.
Nevertheless, your response should still reflect the goodness of Allāhﷻ. You may not control how others would treat you, but you can choose how to respond to it. You can choose to respond based on how they treat you, or you can choose to respond based on how Allāhﷻ treats you.
Before you react, think of the consequence of your reaction. How will it affect your relationship and reputation in the long run?
Don't be blinded by hatred and vengeance. Offer help, give them hope, be a friend. When someone tries to drag you into that dungeon of bitterness, be a light in the dark and reach out.
Instead of asking for a blessing, BE A BLESSING.
🌻Smile and forgive whoever wronged you ...
BINABASA MO ANG
Inspiring The Muslimah
Non-FictionI built this to give advice and inspirations to my sisters in Islam. I hope this could help you to improve your connection with Allah عز وجل. Some parts are not mine.
