Chapter:5 FAMILY PRESSURE

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~The biggest challenge of life is to be yourself in a world that is trying to make you like everyone else ~
Now a days family pressure is common as you will enter in high school every parent will want their kid to succeed its a good thing but when they stop understanding you and start putting pressure on you this is where you start thinking that you are useless and which starts to disturb you. Then there is a pressure from your relatives as if there children are scoring better then there is than there is no way that they are not going to taunt you for that. Sometimes its okay to have family pressure it can teach you that you have to do something and never give up, but Some people can not bear family pressure as their parents wants you to get straight A's. Some people are more creative and are not that good in studies its okay!! But sometimes our family dont understand it. You need to study so as physical health. I have seen people who study al lot but dont care for there health and they feel ill because of that they cannot focus on study so make sure to balance your study and physical health because they both are important.
I have seen may students being pressurised which is very wrong. It can create a very bad effect on student's physical or mental heath.

 It can create a very bad effect on student's physical or mental heath

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The pressure that is put on by parents also leads to a lot of stress. "Pressure for good grades often lead to high stress and cheating" the title of the Stanford News articles. The article mentions how students tend to try and find loopholes in the education system. High school is a prime example of pressure put on students to get good grades. High school students are typically concerned with their GPA, ACT's, SAT's. Not to mention college admissions and many other variables. "Pressure by parents and schools to achieve top scores have created stress levels among students- beginning as early as elementary school- that are so high, that some educators regard it as a health epidemic". (Palmer 1) This quote is from Denise Clark, the author of the famously known book, 'Doing School'. In her lecture, she shows how these pressures can overwhelm the students.

Secondly, Pressure that is put on students to get good grades commonly leads to sadness or even depression. Students often procrastinate and eventually they become overwhelmed. When students become overwhelmed, they often start to think that things are falling apart or they fall into depression. Depression can leat to stress
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This shows how the pressure effect on students stress can lead to bad grades and they u starting thinking and now you can't do it but there is nothing impossible. Make your every second and work worth it. You need to tell others what you are really proficient of. If your are not good at studies there is no issue because you might be at sports or arts e.t.c.
Don't juxtapose yourself with others because you might be good at something in which the are really bad. Contrasting yourself with others is wrong because you are different from each other have different point of view and prospective .

 Contrasting yourself with others is wrong because you are different from each other have different point of view and prospective

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As you will be pressurised you will lose confidence in yourself and will stop talking to others. You will start sitting alone ,which is illicit. When you go through things like this talk about it with someone as sharing will make you feel light and you will feel better and always look forward.
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