The Sadist Has Feelings Too (ManXman) {BDSM}

{Damon and Mason's contract}

Frame agreement for a Dominant / Submissive relationship

This document specifies the responsibilities and duties of Damon Zhang  {the Dominant} and Mason Dharma {the Submissive} as part of a consensual BDSM agreement. This agreement is private and shall not be disclosed in any circumstances to anyone other than both parties and Marcus Carlisle, even if it is not legally binding.

The Dominant
I, Damon Zhang, request of Mason Dharma the acceptance of my dominance and guidance. I ask for ownership of your mind and body in return for my care and protection. Through this agreement, we may strengthen our bond and increase intimacy.

I vow to provide care and guidance and utmost respect of your body and mind. I shall not breach your limits or break the trust you have in me. I shall respect the use of your safewords (yellow to slow down, red to stop) and act accordingly when used.

To this end, I will keep my physical, emotional and mental attitudes to the best of my ability.

I want you to trust that I will provide guidance during scenes that helps you grow as a slave and me as a dominant.

Whether together or separated, I expect total surrender and control of your sexual pleasure and physical and emotional comfort. Additionally, I agree that no secrets shall exist between us, all questions asked will have the purpose of bettering you in some way, and your privacy will be respected to the best of my ability. It is therefore my responsibility to listen to all fantasies, limits, feelings and needs without hesitance and to work to eliminate mental hurdles that may prevent such communication.

I will implicate any punishment that I see fit should you fail to uphold this contract and break our rules.

I ask for ownership of your mind, body and soul with the understanding that your physical, emotional and mental safety will be cared for. Risk of life or livelihood allows for termination of this contract.

The slave's rules and expectations: written by The Dominant specifically for The Slave

-You will do as I say without hesitation
-You will do everything in your power to obey me
-You do not touch me without my explicit consent
-You do not masturbate or cum without my permission, I am in charge of your pleasure and I may choose to give you it or not at any time
-You do not speak without being spoken to first (during any bdsm activity, in public this does not apply)
-You will call me Master and nothing else unless we are in public
-You are my property now, I can do whatever I want to you unless you need to safeword
-I will not remind you of your safewords so know you can always use them. If you cannot speak I will give you a ball to drop or you tap a part of my body
-I expect you to answer my texts and calls within a reasonable time
-Never be late to meet me, I don't like to wait

The Submissive

I, Mason Dharma, request of Damon Zhang the acceptance of my submission. I grant ownership of my mind and body and accept your care and protection of free will and open heart. Through this agreement, we may strengthen our bond and increase intimacy.

I vow to provide my body to fulfill your needs to the fullest of my ability. Use of my body will be at your discretion. Furthermore, I will strive to better serve your needs and accept your guidance to help me become a better person.

To this end, I will adapt my physical, emotional and mental attitudes to the best of my ability.

I trust that you will will provide guidance during scenes that helps me grow as a submissive and during life to spur my growth as a person.

Whether together or separated, I surrender control of my sexual pleasure and physical and emotional comfort to you. Additionally, I agree that no secrets shall exist between us, all questions will be answered honestly and privacy must be granted to me by you. It is therefore my responsibility to voice all fantasies, limits, feelings and needs without hesitance to you and to work to eliminate mental hurdles that may prevent such communication.

I accept any punishment that you see fit, within my limits, should I fail to uphold this contract and meet your expectations.

I grant ownership of my mind, body and soul with the understanding that my physical, emotional and mental safety will be cared for. Risk of life or livelihood allows for termination of this contract.

Should the need to revise the contract arise before expiration date, I agree to verbal negotiation.

The consent in this contract begins on [14/7/21].

Slave Signature: Mason Dharma

Dominant Signature: Damon Zhang

Activity sheet

The submissive should list each activity from 1-5 for interest in the activity.

1 -  Hard Limit (Not willing at all)
2 - Not interested
3 - Neutral
4 - Like It
5- Love it

Bondage
Blindfolds — 5
Bondage (heavy) — 5
Bondage (light) — 5
Leather restraints — 5
Chains — 5
Ropes — 5
Cuffs (leather) — 5
Cuffs (metal) — 5
Gags — 5
Suspension — 4

Impact/Percussion
Spanking — 5
Flogging — 5
Whipping — 5
Canes  — 5
Belts — 5
Riding crops— 5
Cat-o-nine —5
Wooden paddles — 5
Full body beating  — 5
Hair pulling  (receiving) — 5
Hair pulling (giving) —2
Face slapping  — 5

Sexual activity
Oral sex (giving)  — 5
Oral sex (receiving) —4
Swallowing semen  — 5
Hand job  (giving) — 5
Hand job (receiving) —4
Anal sex  (giving) — 5
Anal sex (receiving) —1
Anal plugs (small) — 5
Anal plugs (large) — 5
Vibrators — 5
Fisting (giving) — 1
Fisting (receiving) —5
Rimming (giving) — 4
Rimming (receiving) —5
Double penetration (giving)  — 1
Double penetration (receiving) —4
Triple penetration (giving) — 1
Triple penetration (receiving) —3
Forced masturbation — 5
Phone sex — 5
Multiple partner sex — 3
Outdoor sex — 4
Orgasm control — 5
Deep throating (giving) — 1
Deep thrusting (receiving) —5

Sensation play
Scratching (giving) — 2
Scratching (receiving) —4
Biting (giving) — 2
Biting (receiving) —4
Kissing  (giving) — 5
Kissing (receiving) —5
Zapping (electricity)  — 4
Ice cubes  — 5
Wax play  —4
Clothes pegs  — 5
Knife play —5
Fire Play —3

Breath play
Breath control  — 4
Choking  — 5

Humiliation
Teasing  — 5
Humiliation (private) — 5
Humiliation (public) — 4
Verbal humiliation — 5
Spitting — 5
Objectifying — 5
Shaving — 3
Sexy clothing — 4
Outdoor scenes — 4
Public exposure — 3

Body part torture
Nipple clamps — 5
CBT — 5
Sounding —5

Fetishes
Feet — 1
Boots  — 4
Underwear (panties/lingerie)— 2
Chastity devices — 5
Masks — 1
Leather  — 4

Roleplaying
Fear play  — 5
Abandonment  — 3
Kidnapping —3
Interrogation — 3
Rape — 5
Gangbang — 5
Medical scenes— 3
Prison scenes — 3
Schoolroom scenes  — 3
Primal play —3

Bodily fluids and functions
Water-sports (giving) —1
Water-sports (receiving) — 4
Scats (giving)  — 1
Scats (receiving) —3
Cum  (giving) — 1
Cum (receiving) —5
Saliva  (giving) — 1
Saliva (receiving) —5

Here is a space for any extra information the submissive would like to add:

I have no hard limits other than permanent damage