The Purpose Of Life: What leads us towards our True Purpose

Feelings- 1. Hate

We all have people that we hate, no one in this world is that forgiving.

What exactly is hate and what does it have to do with our purpose?

Hate is a feeling that is actually derived from another feeling called "anger". Now, getting angry at a person doesn't mean that you hate the person. However, if a person tends to make you angry time and again that will probably make you hate him.

Each and every person in this world is hated by someone, even the dead are being hated on by someone.

You have people that hate you, I have people that hate me. The same goes for us too, there are people that you hate, there are people that I hate. For centuries and even before that, people have known hate and all of their stories come to one single conclusion- "You will be engulfed by the fire known as hate."

Meaning, that if one hates, he will suffer, fall and perish.

If we compare this thought, by the statement I made earlier wouldn't we all suffer and perish?

"Then how do we stop hating?"

Unfortunately, there is no way to do that because hate is a human feeling not something temporary that we can let go that easily.

"So what do we do now?"

The problem here is that we are only looking at hate in only one way, if you think about it in another way, hate is actually something that will push you towards achieving your true purpose. Surprising, right?

If you change your way of thinking just a little bit you'll be able to see that hate is nothing but a wall in our life that needs to be crossed. We have two options, climbing the wall or destroying the wall. By climbing the wall what I mean to say is that, we control our hate and just get used to the things around us, sooner or later the person or thing we hate will go away and if you give things a little time the thing or person you hate could turn into a something or someone you love, there have been many cases like that.

Second option, by destroying the wall what I mean is, remove the thing that you hate from your life, if you have a thing you hate straight up ignore it or just throw it out of your life, if you have a person you hate confront them about it, tell them how you feel about them, if the person is actually a good person he will respect you for this, if he is bad or a regular person you are more likely to get a backlash.

Either way, you will have to face the wall because when you finally cross the wall, the feeling you'll have is legendary, the feeling of being free from the hate in your heart, when you let it all out.

Getting over hate isn't always this easy, as, hate is something that will actually eat you if you let it control your life, you have to control it, you have to find a medium, you have to have a clear mind. Hating something and actually walking in the path of hate are two completely different things, because harming something just because you hate it will do nothing but make you hollow inside, you will never be able to achieve your true purpose.

You have to understand the difference between those two and when you do understand the difference,

You won't have the red shackles of hate holding you back.