The Purpose Of Life: What leads us towards our True Purpose

Gender- 3. Men

The most privileged gender out of all the three. Since the beginning, a man has been seen as someone who has all the authority. He claims everything that he lays eyes on, a man is seen as someone who rules over others, a true king. For a man gender isn't something that acts as an obstruction to his path to purpose, or at least that is what people think.

Gender is not a "Primary factor" that affects our purpose, it is the society that has stereotypes that give certain roles to the each gender and the same goes for a male/man. In society's eyes, a man is someone who works non-stop, who only sheds sweat and not tears, he is someone who is the leader of a family and his purpose in life is to stand out and rule. Most of the times that isn't the case, if a man stays at home and takes care of the family and lets his wife work instead of him, he receives all sorts of judgments from the society, his manliness is questioned.

A man can never be depressed, he has to be happy-go-lucky all the time, a man can never cry because if he does "he is a pussy".

Gender doesn't decide the purpose of life of an individual, what he is meant to do he has to do it, but just like other genders the same goes for a man. According to society, there are things that a man should not do, even if those things are a part of his purpose, he is forced not to do it.

That is why when the world was in the warring state, men were the ones who had to sacrifice their families and protect them.

A man cannot get emotional; he cannot have feelings that bind him. Physically, he might seem to be free, but in his mind, he has got things binding him from achieving his purpose.

A man doesn't feel pain, because he can withstand anything, he is made of steel.

If an individual man does something bad, all of the men are trash and they should cease to exist.

"With so many stereotypes and so many responsibilities, how do you expect a man to even find his purpose, let alone achieve it?"

A man's future is decided the moment he is born and as a man I know that reversing it is really difficult, but just like the other genders when a man finally finds his purpose, he will have to show the world what he is capable of doing. That he can be whatever he wants, it doesn't matter what society thinks of him, it doesn't matter what his own parents think of him and it doesn't matter what his loved ones think of him.

Once he sets his eye on something he has to achieve it and show it to the world that he doesn't give a rat's ass about the stereotypes, he doesn't care if his masculinity is questioned, he doesn't care if he rules or not and he doesn't care if he is not the family's head.

When he finally let's go of this, he will be "Aman on a mission".