Making A Relationship Work

Making a Relationship Work :

According to a book "Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman" you have to understand that every person has a different "Love Language".

Some express their love verbally and tell you you mean the world to them, others might never utter a single "I love you" to you but will always bring back little gifts for you.

Some might do neither and prefer to express their love physically.

While some might do it in the form of giving you a huge amount of their time and attention.

Just because your love language is different than that of your partner, you immediately assume that your partner doesn't love you.

We look for the same signs and expressions of love that we use, and when the other person does it in a different way we are unable to identify those signs and mistake it for lack of love.

You for instance might have a love language of "Quality Time", you might give most of your time and attention to your husband to show him your side of the love.
And then you automatically assume him to do the same.
His primary love language on the other hand might be "Acts of service" where he shows his love by doing little tasks for you like watering your plants, fixing your things and bringing you back something home.

Now here both of yours love languages will be different hence you will automatically assume that no love exists, while you both are unconditionally and head over heels in love with each other.

Understand the concept of love languages. Identify that of yours and your spouse. WORK ON YOUR COMMUNICATION LEVEL. ❤️