Soyayya me zafi, haɗe da ƙauna

Labari ne mai cikeda kalubalen da mahaifiya(mami)ta ke fuskanta bayan rasuwar uban yayanta!yadda zata shiga wani sabon rayuwa wanda bata taba tsammanin ganinta a ciki ba,maimakon ya'yanta su kwantar mata da hankali sai sukeyin tsabanin haka,har suke daura mata laifin talauchin su,bakaken maganganu,da hantarar ta,da wulakanci!Shin yayan da suka wulakanta mahaifiyarsu zasu ga daidai a rayuwarsu kuwa? Ya ya rayuwar jamal,Afaaf,muneera da Faruk zai kasance? Ku biyoni domin jin sauran labarin!

Rayuwar auren masoya biyun na tafiya daidai yanda suka tsara tun farkon fari, kwanciyar hankali da son juna ya kafu a cikin gidansu wanda hakan yasa suka zama abun burgewa ga jama'a da dama har wasu suna fatan ina ma su ne! Suna tsaka da wannan jindaɗin ne rayuwarsu ta canja salo wanda hakan yayi sanadiyyar bankaɗuwar wani tsohon alƙawari mai wuyar cikawa. Ko yaya rayuwar tasu zata ƙaya?

'Ammi ya zan yi da rayuwata? Ya kuke so in yi da zuciyata? Ban taba ba...daidai da rana daya ban taba mafarkin yin rayuwar aure ba tare da Ameer ba. Na roke ku da Allah ku zuba idanuwanku kawai a kaina, ina ji da kun san yadda zuciyata ke tafarfasa a duk lokacin da kuka yi min zancen auren wani wanda ba Ameer ba da tuni kun daina...' Kuka sosai take yi, kukan da ke fitowa tun daga k'asan zuciyarta yana ratsowa tsakanin idanuwanta. 'Na sani akwai zafi da radadi Ameerah, na san miye so, na san gubarshi saboda ni ma na tab'a dandana. Sai dai Ameerah ba za mu zura miki idanuwa ba, shekarunki ashirin da takwas kenan babu aure, kina zaune jiran gawon shanu. Waye ya san inda Ameer yake yanzu? Wa ma yake da tabbacin yana da rai ko babu?'

tana ganin lokaci ɗaya Allah ya jarabbe su da matsaloli kala-kala har hakan yayi sanadin tafiyan mahaifiyar ta, ta kasa yarda mahaifiyar ta zata yi musu haka ita da mahaifin ta, duk rayuwar da suka gina tsawon shekaru amma lokaci ɗaya ta rushe musu, meyasa baza tayi haƙuri na ɗan lokaci Abee ya samu lafiya ba? Meyasa zata nuna gajiyawa da laluran Abee ɗin ta? Ashe dama ba son su take yi ba da har zata iya tsallake su tabar su a wannan duniyar? Haƙiƙa abin ya taɓa ta wanda lokaci ɗaya gaba ɗaya duniyar tayi mata zafi ta sauya mata, wanda tana ji kamar gwara mutuwar ta da wannan rayuwar, ta rasa komi nata, ba ta da kowa sai ita kaɗai, taya zata iya rayuwa a haka? Komi nata na farin ciki ya wargaje ya barta. Mutuwa shi ne ya fi cancanta a gare ta. Sai kuma ga mummunar ƙaddara ya same ta wanda ya sauya mata gaba ɗaya rayuwar ta.

Kaddara! Mece ce ita? Yaya rayuwar yarinya mai karancin shekaru za ta kasance a lokacin da ta tsinci kanta cikin mummunar kaddara, irin kaddarar da ba ta da magani? Shin dukkanin mutane ne ke jingine mafarkai da burikansu, su sadaukar da duk wani farincikinsu domin aminnansu? Ba matsalarta ce kadai ta dauka matsala ba, har matsalar aminiyarta ta mayar da ita tata, yayin da ta ci alwashin daukar fansa , ta ajiye burinta a gefe. Ku shigo cikin labarin DARE DUBU, na muku alkawarin ba za ku yi nadamar bibiyarsa ba.

Wannan ce qaddararmu labari ne daya faru a gaske ,sannan labari ne dake tattare da nishadartawa fadakarwa ilimantarwa, uwa uba yarda da kaddamar da ta fadawa mutun, sannan yana tattare da tsaftacciyar soyayya ...

DR UMAIMAH USMAN BULAMA,Mace yar kimanin shekara ishirin da tara , Babbar surgeon A asibitin CITY TEACHING HOSPITAL , Aure Uku, ƴaƴanta uku . Mace mara san hayaniya wadda tasan kan Aikinta ,babu abunda tasa a gabanta illa bawa Aikinta babban muhimmanci kana yaranta wadda kaɗdarar samunsu ta rarraba mata Aure . Kalma ɗaya zaka faɗa ta bata mata rai shine kushe mata Aikinta ko nuna wasa a duk wani abu da ya shafi Aikinta . Ita ɗin kwarariyace kuma gogaggiya akan duk wani abu da ya safi surgery,ba kasar ta ba hatta a wasu kasashen tana zuwa aiki. Bangaren soyayya fa? Bata dauki soyayya a bakin komai ba tunda dukkan Aurenta guda ɗaya ne tayi na soyayya kuma shima bai karbe ta ba wanda hakan yasa ta yanke shawarar saka soyayya a ƙwandan shara duk da kuwa tayin da ake kawo mata ,ta gama yanke imani da soyayya akan duk wani ɗa namiji wanda haka yasa mutane da dama ke mata kazafi da mata take so duba da ƙin mazanta karara a fili. Amma menene dalilin tsanar tasu da tayi? Menene yasa ta cire mazan daga tunaninta da zuciyarta baki daya? Shin zata faɗa soyayyar wani ɗa namiji ko a'a? Idan zata faɗa wanenen wannan mai sa'ar?. DR IMAM MUKTAR PAKI, Saurayi dan kimanin shekaru Ishirin da tara ,bai taba Aure ba, Dalibi wanda yake neman sake gogewa akan Aikin surgery ,shekara ɗaya wadda kareta ne kaɗai zai bashi kwali da kuma lasisin Fara yin surgery ,kaddara itace tayi aikinta ta ɗauko sa kan kachakar ta kawosa CITY TEACHING HOSPITAL inda yake ƙarkashin jagorancin likitar da kowa ke tsoro da shakka, Mene zai faru idan shi bai ji wannan feelings ɗin ba sai wani daban wanda shi kansa bazaya iya fassarawa ba? Shin ya wannan kaɗdarar tasu zata kasance? Shin Wanne irin chakwakiya Imam ke shirin ɗaukowa kansa domin wannan likitar da ya ke kan giyar so AURENTA UKU ,Ƴaƴanta uku a yayin da shi ko na fari bai taba yi ba. Ku biyo ɗiya jamilu domin jin yarda wannan labarin na IMAM da UMAIMAH zai kasance !

Wani kallon banza ta watsa mata tace "To bari kiji irin tsanar da nayi masa, da Allah zai k'adda yazamo Aljanna a tare zamu shiga to wallahi ni wuta zan wuce direct, akan dai mushiga atare da juna gara in zamo 'yar ja....

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