I started writing this when I thought I was ftm, then I realized that I'm nonbinary masc leaning, so for the first portion of the book he/him is used for the reader but then it switches to they/them, still focusing on the same struggles of being afab but not identifying as cisgender and reminding you that finding a partner is still very possible, even if they are cis and don't identify as bi, pan, or anything else attracted to multiple genders. Requests CLOSED.