Insecurities Are A Woman's Biggest Flaw. De'unshae Gordon (Dede) is a Beautiful Big Boned Girl, But she couldn't possibly see it for herself.. Every night and day she would stare in the mirror and wonder why she couldn't be like the other females thin and boney. But will that all change when she meets the possible Love of her life, Blake Adkins.. Could Blake change Dede's life? Or be just another burden...