People change for TWO reasons : Either they learned a lot or they've been hurt too much .. But think about it.. there are EFFECTS when a person changed.. Either change in POSiTiVE way or in NEGATiVE way .. We can't BLAME the person on what he/she wants to become.. Because, it's her/his own WiLL to go or choose to his/her own destination in life.... * QUEEN OWEN =)