A dominant doesn't just mean being on top of the pecking chain. It also doesn't mean that you have to be a man or of the male population. It means knowing why you're here and being bold about pursuing your pleasure or other desires in a no-nonsense way. I am a dominant. I know what I want, and I'm not afraid to chase those desires. There's only one problem. Everyone wants me, and I have a family to protect. So I push forwards with legal routes to keep my endeavours quiet whilst enjoying the years I've allowed myself to have fun.

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